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Sallie, 41
United States, Ohio, Troy

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About Me

I am a very good hearted person who loves to be with those closest to me. I would help anyone- I'm the friend u call at 2am to come help, and I'll be there at the drop of a hat. I have my act and my life together. I have wonderful kids and a big heart. I am financially self-sufficient. I have long relationships and love big, sometimes life just doesn't work out the way you imagined. But that's ok, I am always looking ahead and at the bright side and all I have to be thankful for. I have always worked very hard, whether that is in school, work or life in general. I love to work out and want someone who enjoys that as well. I gravitate to intelligent, successful, FUNNY men- I love to laugh and be with someone engaging. Physical attraction is very important, but I can't have that with someone who isn't charming, no matter how good looking they are. I would rather have a relationship with someone with average looks and a killer personality. Money doesn't matter to me, but intelligence and drive do....as long as you live life to the fullest, use your talents and work hard I respect that. I'm pretty private, and I don't like to jump into anything. If you're calling me non stop and want some weekend get away first date, no thank you. I want to just make some friends and see where that goes. Very casual first date, like coffee or a drink. If it's meant to be, things will work out naturally. No pressure, I hate that!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hmmmm...what can I say here ~ I grew up down state just outside of the city, so I guess youd say Im a city girl adjusted to country life. I do love the out doors,but country living is not for me or is Winter. I love the gym and being active, but I would be considered a BBW.I work, also I am a full time student working on my RN degree and a single mommy of a 9 yr.old .n two "grown up" kids .My youngest is with me part time and she is my lil pumpkin. Believe it or not I manage it all very well. With that being said ~ I am not looking for perfection, but quiet subtle confidence is so much sexier to me. I also realize we are ALL not perfect, especially not myself there is lots of room for improvement but I am motivated and thats half the battle. Im a total positive mind over matter thinker. Please, also, be able to stand on your own two feet. If you are a parent even better, being in most cases you will understand priorities and responsibility. One of my long term goals is to relocate down south to some place warm and wonderful, when the time is right. I am very goal orientated. I enjoy structure and planning so if you are a wild one who lives by the seat of your pants loves the bar scene or getting hammered, partying and anything always goes, sorry we in the long run would not be a good match. I am looking for someone to spend time with and get to know on my down time. I do have time for family work responsibilities and personal adult time,too I think all things start with friendship, even at the intimate level. I love life. Ive been through enough in my time that I can appreciate the finer moments in life to "stop and smell the roses", if you get my drift. Laugh Often Love deeply & Live life to the fullest. Guess we will just have to see what we agree on...

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  • Bobbi from Troy | Woman | 41 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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  • Lizzie from Troy | Woman | 41 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a single Mom of four amazing children looking for somebody who enjoys music, dancing, and drinking. I am a very sociable person. I love spending time with my children and two dogs. I am currently looking for someone who is fun loving, has a good sense of humor, and is someone I can just spend time with without being bored. Please message me if you would like to get to know me. If your looking to just "hook up" I'm not your girl.

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