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Bernadette, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Im Brenda.. Im on a quest to find someone to share the rest of this life with.. Im fun,sassy at times and a little on the onery side. Im not exactly a Barbie. doll so if that's what your looking for,look elsewhere. I can love as good, if not lots better than they can.There's just a little more of me to love. :***Im not fat,just pleasingly plump.Im down to earth and love the outdoors.. Im a jeans and T-shirt kinda gal but,I can look mighty fine in a dress too. I will say this in all honesty, im a lover not a fighter. I don't like drama at all...Life is to be used,not abused.Were only here for a little while and I intend to live,laugh, and love with all my heart..Its really not that hard to do..I just need to find the man that can do the same with me.. Im not high maintenance either. Im a simple woman, in need of a best friend.. I know he's out there somewhere.. I just need to find him. You won't ever find a nicer gal or one with a better heart than me.. I think im purtty darn awesome myself .. You won't ever know tho, unless you get ta know me .. So what are you waiting for.. Let's get started.. Im here waiting patiently... Well im up for about anything you wanted to do. We need to see if we have a connection, and enjoy eachothers company.. If we do then set up another date.. :***

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