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About Me

If I say, "progressive feminist with a penchant for healthy eating" and you don't immediately think of a butch third baseman on an over 40 women's league, we could probably have drinks.I'm not going to tell you that I like sports and that I'm totally cool spending hours watching them because that would be disingenous. I do bike, ski, hike, and run, and probably could kick some serious ass playing dodgeball, but I'm going to be honest, I suck at laser tag. Apparently, my desire to eat clean doesn't appeal to their middle school sensibilities. That said, when they are in college, the FIRST thing they will miss is their mother's cooking. Plural. As in twins. I'm very efficient. And of course they are fantastic, brilliant, thoughtful, and killer athletes, but let's keep it real, they can also be complete ***holes (I did mention that they are 12, right?). Gratefully, I have one of those jobs that when people meet me at a dinner party and find out what I do, they never leave me alone. Ultimately, I live most days in a state of gratitude, I surround myself with people who make me laugh, think or both, and I accept that my life is a work in progress. As for you, if you could be a tad smarter than me, equally as funny, and show some signs of evolution in mind, body and soul, I think we might have something worth pursuing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    I am vivacious, smiling, full of life, love and happiness in all things in my life. Looking for an equal romance. Every day is a good day in my world and I would like to share these great days with someone. I take nothing for granted and appreciate the small things in life. I want to be cherished and adore.Things that I love......Family, friends, smiling, laughing, a beautiful home, my work, music, kindness, seahawks football, loyalty, HONESTY, laughter, love, friendship, compassion, dancing in the rain, wildflowers, excitement and kindness. Things I enjoy…..Making memories, being spontaneous, challenges, new friends, girls night out, drinks on the porch, riding motorcycles, fishing, camping, boating, gardening, fresh air, hiking, watching football, quiet nights at home, weekend get-away’s, the beach, the excitement that a new season brings, cooking, movies, playing in the dirt, reading, horses, hard work, being creative. BBq’s, bon fires. Good Beer. Inspiration from an unexpected source. Surprise me. Be creative.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    UPDATE: a friend of mine said that i sounded too nice on here. so here goes some sassyness...im REAL! i dont deal well with drama queens or kings or liers. im very honest. so dont waste my time if u cant be honest of if u like drama! i don't need a man. i Want a man that i can get to know and go from there. there is a difference. im not in a rush. i tak things one day at a time. im a single mother of 2 teenage boys. yes i taught them to respect me and others. so they r good boys. i dont allow drama in my life! but there is everyday drama that no one can keep out. i don't have an amazing figure or a flat stomach. i'm far from being considered a model but, i'm me. i eat food. i have curves! i'm a lil crazy! :) i don't pretend to b someone i'm not. i'm honest, funny, independent, faithful, easy going. i love...my PJs and sometimes i go without makeup and don't get my hair done. i am who i am. and i like who i am.I AM NOT LOOKING FOR JUST SEX, ONE NIGHT STAND OR A FRIENDS WITH BENIFITS!!!! findn someone is like a box of chocolates...u never know what ur gonna get til u meet them in person. (yep!!!)i want what everyone else wants...ALL of IT! my cake with butter cream icing and eat it too! i want someone that will be faithful, honesty, funny, independant, genuine and etc...we all know what we want. it's just hafta find someone that we can have it all with and still be who we are.u gotta kiss a lot of frogs! alot of frogs! dinner, lunch, get to know each other.

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