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Esther, 44

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About Me

I so hate this part... Trying to describe yourself and what you are looking for in a box is kinda hard... I guess the first thing is, I don't like playing mind games... Be grown up and keep it real.... Second, if your serious, then post a pic... Nothing worse than talking to a box with a question mark in it.. I am a outdoor lover... I love to camp, fish, travel, hiking, and gardening... My favorite thing to do is surf and fish... I take every opportunity I can to go surfing in Waikiki to fulfill my favorites... I have a 24ft pontoon that I love to fish on and relax and I like to keep her active lol lol. I am also an artist.. I love to paint what I see.. But my favorite things in life is music and to express my self... Even though I have lived thru such a bad life, I am full of positive views... I am a leader and I try to live a positive life... I try my best to lead others to a positive and happy life... So if all you have is drama.... Well I don't need it and please don't respond... .... I been there and done that.. I am done.. I am fighting for a positive life...I am a type of person that if i see something that needs to be done and no one is trying I will do it.. I am just that way, and hell that's part of my job as well.. Its got to be done so hell do it......So if you are looking to grow in happiness then contact me...Music to express my soul is: http://youtu.be/q9ayN39xmsI Wow.. First date... Hummmmm let me see...Unless your creative and imaginative in this area, there will never be another perfect date like I had 6 months ago... Remembering back..... It was a night like no other... It began with a cool wind sweeping past my face and as I walked closer I could hear whispers in the wind as it past my ears. The night was calm and had my attention.... When I arrived to my destination all I could see was waves as it played its songs so softly to me... As I stood there gazing over the beauty, the moon decided to join in and lit up the band.... I walked out in to the night, and as closer I got the more the band decided to play loudly for me... I then decided to approach the band leader with a soft sweep and felt a closeness like no other... I turned and walked back to where I need to be and to my surprise the band followed me and I sat for the rest of the night enjoying the true beauty of life.... A night never to forget....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shirley

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hey- was definitely not thrilled at first to write the profile part……….(also have to say that it's hard to check the "select what you're looking for" . To me it seems you just have to see what happens.... anyway, I'm interested in meeting someone with a GREAT sense of humor, who loves to have fun, who deviates from the norm, who doesn't take things too seriously all the time, and is intellectual but can also appreciates wrongness. I admire someone who is confident, authentic, laid back, healthy and fit (but not fanatical), family oriented, and passionate (as I am) about what he does... Someone who can find humor in most situations is a big bonus.I love to be with my two children, good friends and family, to go out (for happy hour, ethnic food, dancing, etc.) as well as check out places I've never been. After college I had the chance to live there for many years. It was a great place to ski, mountain bike, kayak, hike, and all that crazy stuff. I still love to ski, and just got a pass for this season. So if you can keep up......ha!Love to read (fiction and non, historical fiction, biographies, etc.), dance, eat, go out to see music, and I love my work as an educator. With my job you have to have thick skin, to be able to roll with the punches, and laugh! I love people who are able to do the same.It would be fun to meet someone who likes to be active, to go out, but who also likes to relax. Life is pretty busy so I really value time to do that. There is much more but I find it weird to describe myself in words; I'd rather just be myself in person. up for most anything, but happy hour would be a good start!

  • Jenny

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Who am I and what am I seeking? Hmmmm...I'm an energetic optimist that's outgoing and friendly! I fit in with most circles, can find adventure in the mundane, typically have a smile on my face, laugh a lot, and have a passion for the arts. I like politics and lean way to the left, so I usually don't go for conservative men...or men that are in to guns.... or country music. Okay, I can give in to a bit of country music... But just a bit! ;-)I love the outdoors, especially all that the PNW has to offer, but you're most likely to find me in a hotel rather than camping. Beach bonfire, tho? I'm in! I love to travel and have been to many countries and most of the states, but at this point in my life, travel is just not an option. My kiddos need me... and I'll have plenty of time to travel when they're a bit older! I see a lot of live theatre and am always looking for someone to join me! From Shakespeare to Musicals, I adore the stage! Live comedy shows, live bands... I guess I prefer things live! But, I have my must see TV as well: True Blood, Homeland, Parenthood, Glee, and Downton Abbey. I love most movies! My all time favorite = Princess Bride!I've decided that I'm ready to look for that special someone. I've met a few great people on this site, but really want that connection. That person you can't wait to tell about your day (or night). I crave cuddles, kisses and a bit of romance in my life.... A true partnership.That said, I have a complicated life! I have three amazing kiddos that I adopted from foster care. They have health issues and it's not always easy for me to find free time, so I find myself being incredibly picky when it comes to men. If you're ever lucky enough to meet them, you'll see why I choose to spend the majority of my time with them. 3 Drinks or coffee and laughter

  • Rhoda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i am a hard working mother, i want to date and have some fun. for once i would like to be number one to some one. i want an honest fun loving hands on kind of guy. i read a lot and play on the net. i like to go to the lake. and i like making new friends.the longer i am on these sites the more i figure out what i wanti what to be important to the one i am with, i never what to feel like i am some ones last choosei what to laugh and have funi want some one how completes me or at lest can bring out my good side dinner some where where we could talk and see if there is a spark

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