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Allyson, 45

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About Me

I think we need a handbook for this site.....I'm not sure why this is a game to most ppl.. if you are only gonna talk to me once..don't tell me i'm your perfect woman and then never speak to me again.. women need closure.. all you're doing in making alot of bitter man haters.. i understand if you just don't click but if you do and you tell her you want to meet her and then never speak again, we really don't know how to react...it really sucks.. and those of you who have done that very thing know who you are and should be ashamed...I am open, honest to a fault and straight forward.. and i expect everyone else to be the same..I have values and morals..I have played the game and don't really like it.. I guess friends is what I'm after.. I'm not possessive or jealous and can only hope to find one as such..I'm happy with my life and very secure in myself.. I'm not a desperate 40 something... I love the water, i find it soothing .. I have learned a different variety of music strengthens the soul..This whole dating thing has been a real disappointment.. I have met some true friends, but the dating part is just wrong we'll figure that out later

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Deena

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    "Be weird. Be random. Be who you are. Because you never know who would love the person you hide." (anonymous) With me, what you see is what you get. I am now, who I will be later, when we know each other better, so keep that in mind if you decide to make *** you know so little at the beginning...I promise to do the same :)Well it seems not everyone is on the same page…but I would like to meet someone from at least the same book!!Experience has taught me that I know what I want, what I like and don’t like and what I will and will not put up with :) I have run the full gamut meeting some nice guys (with no chemistry) to dodging the crazies (haven’t we all!) and I have learned A LOT along the way…mostly that I am resilient and I remain hopeful with this process!! ***update: I give up lol ***update...this is still true: I am a bright, affectionate, loyal, kind, honest and fun-loving girl with a sarcastic sense of humour looking for the same in a partner to spend time with…let’s see where it takes us :)On that happy note, I am going to be very blunt and put forth my “DO-NOT-APPLY” list…it's nothing personal; just saving us time:Smokers (never!- ew gross! I LOVE mens hands so it's something I watch for)Boring duds with no sense of humour (I have a big laugh and I’m not afraid to use it!)Toothless wondersI realize I am not perfect, and neither are you…but there is someone out here who thinks we are!!Have fun and please play nice :)XOPS - I'd like to add that I do not view kids as "baggage"; if anything they are more like a carry-on package to be handled with care. Clearly physical attraction is important (who knew?!) so I would prefer to keep first meetings short and sweet...but I am happy to do just about anything so long as the company is great! ***update: just a quick meet-and-greet; are you cute enough? am i?? lol Recently tried the saturday-night-dinner-date and he bailed after not getting 'dessert'...classy lol (not to mention hurtful) so I will stick to the quick meet-and-greets until I find that mutual attraction we all desire, thank you!!

  • Janine

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy horseback riding, 4 wheelers, camping, fishing, hiking, canoeing, flea markets, outdoor projects, and movies. I am currently working part time while working on my AS in Biology then continuing through a 17 month program for bachelors in laboratory science. I very involved in my church. I am on this site to find a long-term relationship. I am just fine by myself but life would be more fulfilling if I had someone to share it with. My core needs in a relationship are strong communication, physical affection, reliability, honesty, and trust. I am a natural redhead, however, I color my hair brown from time to time (cuz I don't like red hair) but it comes back so I have pics with red and brown hair....just in case someone noticed and wondered. Public place.

  • Maricela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Let me be real specific so I'm not wasting anyone's precious time. I'm a very loving, funny, smart mother of one looking for a good Christian man that is looking for a long term relationship, hopefully marriage minded. I have one son that comes before anything and I understand if the man has children he will do the same. If you just want to casually date I am NOT the person for you, I'm too old and been through enough to know exactly what I want. I love a man that is well versed, can hold a good conversation and knows how to treat a woman right. My passion is cooking and I'm good at it. I was born and raised in Germany and I love my German cuisine. So not being picky when it comes to food is a big plus. There's a lot more to me then this, message me with any questions you have! Surprise me, a man that goes above and beyond to treat a woman special scores HUGE plus points

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