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Dee, 41

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About Me

I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Be YOURSELF and have a pretty good idea of what that is. Authentic is attractive. Don't try to be what you think I want you to be. We don't have to have all of the same traits. Complimenting someone's life rather than matching is what is important to me. Honesty, communication, and chemistry are the key factors. AND you have to be able to LAUGH. Life is too short not to. I'm more of a jeans and tee shirt kinda girl, but I can dress it up too ;) I believe that things happen for a reason, I believe kindness goes a long way, and I believe that you should dance like nobodys watching. We will either click or not. If not... doesn't make either a bad person, just maybe not the best match. When something is right...it's right. Well, if you want to know more take a chance.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    If I had to describe myself I would say first I am a happy person who loves to laugh a lot! Kind, generous, faithful, trustworthy, not materialistic at all and I love and enjoy the simple things life has to offer. I am also brutally honest and say whats on my mind. Not really into sports I would rather be out doing something outdoors than stuck indoors watching TV.I am looking for a man who is also looking for the same things I am like: being in a monogamous relationship, experiencing new adventures together, looking for a best friend as well.Not looking for a player, cheater, liar, or someone who has NO job or car or his own place to live. Not looking for someone who just wants to hang out with someone to pass the time or to just have an intimate relationship with, not looking for someone controlling or jealous. Must be laid back and secure in himself. I am looking for long term begin as friends and develop into something more, not necessarily marriage just a great solid relationship.The simple things mean the most to me, a quick phone call or text to let me know you are thinking of me, flower in my car or a little note you wrote to me. Being romantic is important to me as well, surprising me with a picnic at the park, above all I want to meet someone I can laugh with and have fun with. So if you have a great sense of humor that is a plus because that is a huge attraction for me!I dont really care about race I'm more interested in if your a good person and have a good heart and if your looking for the same things I am. I do have biracial kids so the person I date needs to be ok with that....Distance let's face it is a factor, trying to keep it no more than an hour drive is a plus!(As far as pics I wont answer profiles with no pic, profiles with no shirt on, profiles with only pics of the face only, or face not seen.)All my pics were taken in the last year or two. No surprises I wish you all the best in your search.....

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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