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Dee, 41

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About Me

I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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