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Shirley, 44

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About Me

Hey- was definitely not thrilled at first to write the profile part……….(also have to say that it's hard to check the "select what you're looking for" . To me it seems you just have to see what happens.... anyway, I'm interested in meeting someone with a GREAT sense of humor, who loves to have fun, who deviates from the norm, who doesn't take things too seriously all the time, and is intellectual but can also appreciates wrongness. I admire someone who is confident, authentic, laid back, healthy and fit (but not fanatical), family oriented, and passionate (as I am) about what he does... Someone who can find humor in most situations is a big bonus.I love to be with my two children, good friends and family, to go out (for happy hour, ethnic food, dancing, etc.) as well as check out places I've never been. After college I had the chance to live there for many years. It was a great place to ski, mountain bike, kayak, hike, and all that crazy stuff. I still love to ski, and just got a pass for this season. So if you can keep up......ha!Love to read (fiction and non, historical fiction, biographies, etc.), dance, eat, go out to see music, and I love my work as an educator. With my job you have to have thick skin, to be able to roll with the punches, and laugh! I love people who are able to do the same.It would be fun to meet someone who likes to be active, to go out, but who also likes to relax. Life is pretty busy so I really value time to do that. There is much more but I find it weird to describe myself in words; I'd rather just be myself in person. up for most anything, but happy hour would be a good start!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is the fun part of setting up a profile...I am the type of person that tries to go with the flow, what ever life throws at me even ***. No matter how bad things seem, someone else is having it worse than you. Life is too short to stay mad for any length of time and to hold grudges.!! Can't get enough of the beauty that surrounds us here! I have a very outgoing personality and love to laugh! Quiet and shy are not one of my strong suits lol Everyone says this but I am a very honest and loyal person. I wear my heart on my sleeve and don't hide my emotions. If something is bothering me I let it be known, too much energy is wasted bottling things up. I am the type of person that LOVES "the little things", doing them and having them done for me! I am a very affectionate person and welcome PDA. Being a good kisser is a must! To make a long story short I am simply looking for what everyone wants, my happily ever after...No one seems to put what their weaknesses or down falls are on their profiles...I actually asked someone that has known me for 12 years to be completely honest and tell me what she thought mine were and this what she said....I am an over thinker, over communicator, and my feelings get hurt easily. I looked her dead in the face and said, "that's all you got?" I was looking for something I didn't know already lol Meeting for a coffee or going somewhere that's easy to talk. What I look for in a mate...That special someone has to have a good sense of humor to be able to handle my personality. I am looking for a man that can roll with the punches, take the good with the bad, and be solid in knowing who he is. Someone that isn't afraid to communicate or share his feelings. If there is no communication in a relationship, you don't have anything.Honesty and trust are very important to me...who doesn't want these qualities lol I am not much of a drinker and wouldn't suit someone that was. I don't care if you have a drink here and there but if having a beer after work is a must for you, that wouldn't fit well into my life.

  • Corrine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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