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About Me

I'm a woman who almost always has a smile on her face. I look for the silver lining in every situation. I know God has a plan for me and I hold on to that even when it seems like things aren't going my way.I love to laugh and laugh easily. Sometimes at completely innapropriate things. I like to make others laugh too but don't always think quick on my feet. I usually come up with the *** 2 days too late.I'm pretty shy at first. I'm not completely the same person with everybody. I don't have multiple personalities... just different people draw out different aspects of me. I'm an observer but not very observant if that makes any sense at all.I'm not a daredevil. I have no desire to skydive, EVER! But I'd love to go ziplining. Maybe parasailing or in a hot air balloon. I love riding on the back of a motorcycle. I would consider learning to ride my own. I will write a book someday. I would love to learn to shoot. I love camping. I think I like fishing. I'd like to be a gardener someday.I love music. I will most often be listening to classic rock, country or contemporary christian. My favorite tv shows are Law and Order SVU, NCIS and Chopped. I love to read romance novels and home decor magazines. I did read the 50 shades books. No, I am not into that lifestyle.I have three kids. My 17 year old daughter lives with me full time and my 11 year old son lives with his dad but spends a few days of the week with me. He thinks mom is pretty boring on her own so hopes that I find a friend that likes to do cool stuff.I would like to find a man with nice eyes and an easy smile. Belief in God is an absolute must. I desire to lead a healthier life and be more active so it would be great if those are your goals also. Someone who is considerate of others' feelings and not judgemental. Someone who still has a lot of life and fun in them and isn't ready to just sit on the couch and retire. Someone who is more outgoing than myself (which doesn't take much) who will gently and patiently ease me past my own comfort zone to try new things. I'd like a man that can be strong and assertive without being an overbearing ass. I want to live life with purpose on purpose and would like to find someone with that same mindset. Hiking, walking along the waterfront, a street fair.... anything that isn't just sitting across the table from each other. Being fairly shy, small-talk isn't my strong suit especially with someone I've never met before so if there is some kind of activity that would kind of take the edge off.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vanessa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Just noticed age is wrong and can't figure out how to change it...should be 51. (ugghh that hurts to even type it lol) And just noticed that since my age is wrong my birthdate is as well. Born in September so Im a VirgoI don't log on all that often so it may take a day or so to respond Likes to hunt and fish and can bait my own hook and can sit in a tree stand for hours.Loves MMA football and basketball especially in person. Fun, witty, outgoing - warped sense of humor....must be able to keep up!Level headed - thinks before blowing a cork. From what I can tell by my friends (guys and girls), I think I may be somewhat normal with limited baggage and drama. No crazy x or any of that stuff to deal with-because I poisoned him! LmaoGood morals and values. Goes to church and would love to share that with someone. Not a cheater or liar...if you are...dont apply...that job posting is closed!Not looking for a fling or a hookup...so if you are please dont respond. Not looking for someone half my age. What is the point in that?Looking foe someone emotionally mature to be able to be honest even when it is unpleasant. Looking for someone who can laugh at themselves and be able to accept me with all my faults. I will accept yours and not judge you for them. Looking for someone young at heart that wants to live life with someone special who will appreciate a good thing. Wants to live life with abandon and no regrets...want to join me? Both decide.

  • Angie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Don't read any further if: UPDATED ***You just want to chat and text..Good Morning how are you? everyday for 2 weeks will wear you out. In addition if you are separated and still living in the same house with your spouse...YOU ARE NOT SEPARATED! Clean your house before you even attempt to move on.You have not dealt with the issues from your last relationship.If you are messaging so many women you can't keep your conversations straight.....So what am I looking for? Communication and honesty are critical. I do not have a type.....Jesus did that.I do not believe this happens at first sight. Actually I think it grows over time. It is worth the work and the risk.Now what I am like...Don't read any further if:You need a Savior --You have not dealt with the issues from your last relationship.If you are afraid of success, risk and the future – then it’s not going to work.So what am I looking for? That special someone who makes my world stop when he enters the room. That person who is on my mind and makes me smile every time I think of him. Someone I can talk with about all things deep and silly. And no, I don't think I'm asking too much. I have been deeply in love twice in my life. I'm not settling for less. I do not believe this happens at first sight. Actually I think it grows over time. It is worth the work and the risk.Now what I am like...I am a professional all the time however I do have to dress up Monday through Friday but in the evening I am just jeans and t-shirts. I really do prefer tail gate dates over restaurants and I do not like going to the mall or shopping...not kidding...not joking...not teasingI love my kids and they are my top priority. My son is leaving for college to play football AND complete his education. I do have one at home that is 99% independent. Yes I raised them that way. I love my job and yes it is demanding work. It is not my life. It is an important part. I get to travel a great deal, usually during the week .I love to laugh and my biggest strength is also my weakness which is I am very tender hearted and compassionate. I have more blessings than I deserve. I want to find the right man to share my life with -- I will camp, or attend a concert I want to see, or travel by myself -- if I have to. I am secure enough in my own skin to venture out. But with the right person I know it is so much better. . Really just like to keep it simple. We can discuss it! However if you can back my boat into the lake...still can't master that one...I can grill the best steaks and shrimp ever:)

  • Clarissa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I want to meet someone, and I want to want to share everything with him. Trust him with all of me. Know each other better than anyone else. This will take time. Are u willing to take the time? f this. we meet and there's either a connection or there isn't. message me if u want to know more. I'm just me, straight up, but me...If in all of your pictures u are wearing sunglasses and I cant see your eyes, post another or please be prepared to send one without sunglasses.iI currently do not have a car. I am not looking for friends with benefits or a man to take care of me. last year. I miss having friends to simply hang out with, do things together. Aren't people friends anymore?Please don't message me for sex.If, however we meet & we click, I'm not opposed to checking that out.

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