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Beth, 40

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About Me

I thought for a second I might have met someone. But, nope, still here :)...... But, I think friends only is what I need for a bit.Hi :) I'm a single mother of three. My oldest has moved out of the house. :( I've been divorced for 8 years and have well put that behind me. Well, let's see, I definitely would like to find a serious relationship eventually. But I think you have to spend at least a little time getting to know someone first to see if they fit into that category. Chemistry is more immediate, but you gotta have that too. ;). I'm sort of on a voyage right now to spend more time being happy. I woke up one day and realized that I was letting all my burdens weigh me down. It was making me someone I didn't want to be. Lol, this is a work in progress, but I am on my way. The biggest lesson in that for me has been my own mindset more than any external factors. I am sort of rediscovering how to have fun.Like everyone, I love to laugh. But, I really want to find that person I can be comfortable and silly with. You know, someone you can play with?;, that's bonus points. Yeah, I can be goofy at times. :)A good communicator is a must. *** Or at least you have to be ok with listening to me chatter away. I am a thinker in this aspect and I enjoy it. I like studying the world and myself trying to figure out the whys to things. A guy who is intelligent enough to keep up with me on this front is a huge turn on. That being said, sometimes I need someone to pull me out of my own head. :)I consider my spirit a dancer. :) And, as such, I love live music. Although, I haven't been to see near enough in recent years. I can be both extroverted and introverted. It all just depends on my mood. (Typical Gemini)Right now, I don't have a lot of freedom for the spontaneous trips etc. Lol, but I dream of the day that I will. I think I vaguely remember that I liked to travel. ;) My point is I can't be taking off as I still have children at home. But, I'd like that to change someday when empty nest hits. :)Lastly, when I fall in love with someone, I am crazy loyal to them and, in my eyes, they are the only man in the world. First date, let's decide what works for both of us. But, before that, let's meet for a half hour and see if we are even interested.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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