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About Me

I would describe myself as family oriented, outgoing, thoughtful and genuine. I am a dedicated mother of three grown children who mean the world to me (my daughter told me to say that). :). In my spare time, I love to read and occasionally do some writing. I have been working with children and families for over 20 years now and needless to say... I love it!Everyone has a dream and mine has always been to own a Bed and Breakfast. Maybe one of these days! I like all kinds of music except that angry headbanging stuff. Not that there's anything wrong with it... I just don't get it. I am looking for someone who is a hopeless romantic such as myself. I am hoping to find someone who will share some of my interests and maybe spark some new ones. Someone to smile and laugh with me. In a nutshell, I'm looking for what my parents have... unconditional love and soul binding friendship. Definitely not a movie. Someplace quiet where we could have a drink and maybe something to nibble on.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Claire

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I'm simple, sweet, kind and I'm very straight up and honest and will say what I think or want. I am laid back, seriously only when needed and love to laugh. I don't play head games nor do I chase if they want to play hard to get. I believe in being honest. I believe in treating people the way I wish to be treated even though that is not always the case, but I always give the benefit of the doubt and be positive no matter what. I moved back home to take care of my parents, help a brother with Parkinson's and a sister with cancer and work but I do always find time for "me". Family is important to me,but I am ready for some adventures as I've been doing this for many years now. I used to be a forklift driver for 5 yrs. I'm not the office type gal, I love to work with my hands and yes even get dirty-greasy. I even know how to change a tire and use tools. I'm from a small town which means easy for gossip which I prefer to stay out of. I'm a fairly private person and I prefer it that way. I'm selective on who I choose to let in my life. I'm happy with who I am and my life. Yes it would be nice to share it with someone, but it will take a man who is honest, straight up, knows what he wants and goes for it, and can handle a woman who knows what she wants and can do things on her own as well as have our own space and of course no drama. Too old for that.I'm a huge lover of music as most of my friends are in the music industry in one form or another.If you wish to know anything, just ask.Wish you much happiness and good luck on your searches :) Meet someplace where we can get to know each other. Who knows, anything is possible :)

  • Vicky

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    Life is golden for me. I believe in the golden rule, life's golden moments, have golden hair( that's what my hairdresser says, and I'm sticking to it!),and have 1 Golden Retriever. I try to do things right, meaning I treat others the way I'd like to be treated. Friends would describe me as very optimistic. I believe in taking opportunity when it presents itself, believing you control what you want in life by making it happen. I'm very outgoing and social, and need to be with people of the same mindset. I need to surround myself with others who have high values and integrity, as I tend to trust easily, and wear my emotions on my sleeve. I say what I mean, do what I say, and can be held accountable. I consider myself a secure, well-balanced , educated, and professional person, and I'm comfortable in all social settings. I'm petite, stay active, and need someone with a high energy level. Love to laugh and find humor in most aspects of my life. Enjoy all types of activities, especially around water! Love all types of music, entertainment, sporting events, travel, and outdoor activities. I like to cook and entertain as well as stay at home for a quiet evening. I have passions, but no addictions, unless chocolate, Diet Coke ,and shoes count. I'm looking for my last and best relationship. Describe you?’t wait to get home to me. Someone who is always on my mind, and vice versa. Fireworks describes us when we are together. We compliment and complete each other and our goal is to make each other the best we can be on a daily basis. A great relationship is work and it is the best lifetime reward, if you put in the effort! All else falls in to place when it's right.It would be nice to get an *** would like to meet. This isn't my 1st date info, but I took the personality and chemistry tests and posted them for all to see.I'm not sure it captured the essence of who and what I am,but thought I might be able to clear things up. First, I am very confident in who and what I am about in life.I don't waiver in my morals and I'm conservative, but once I commit,I am all about the person I am with emotionally and physically.I will be the one to jump in your arms when I see you and you won't forget my kiss..promise.I believe in one person only and total honesty. I believe in the 10 commandments and so should you.It will keep us together for a long time! If you are a player or cannot tell the truth, we will NOT be a match.I love affection and attention and will give you the same.I like to hold hands, kiss, and consider myself a touchy feely type.It doesn't mean I don't like other types of attention from you such as a quick text,note,or phone call during the day to let me know you are thinking about me...you will get the same and I will surprise you in return with a secret date or gift..who knows what! I want an emotional connection too..someone who will talk and be expressive and isn't afraid to share their innermost thoughts to create intimacy,both emotionally and physically. I don't think you can have one without the other.If you are not willing to communicate and share to have this type of connection,we are not a match.We should be each others soft place to fall,confidant,and partner in the good and the bad .Who am I am attracted to? I do know my type! You are a man's man,fit and athletic cut( sorry,its the truth.)You will likely work out several times a week and need to for your sanity. It also makes me happy to look at you :)and you won't be sorry.You rock in a pair of jeans and a tight t-shirt and you like me in the same, but can make me swoon in a tux. I should be able to find your eyes across a crowded room and just know what you are thinking:)The pheromones should be flying between us! You are all man and treat and respect me like the lady I like to be. Chivalry should not be dead.I love kids,but mine are old enough to be out of the house,so I have time to pursue free time with you.I do like spending time with the person I love, inside or out on the town or anywhere in the world.I want someone who likes to enjoy life and see it all! You are happy, fun, spontaneous, keep me guessing,smile alot,kids and dogs love you,very affectionate and will think about me all day long, if I am doing my part to keep you interested. I will feel the same,if you do yours. I will not settle, you shouldn't either. We will both know it when we have it.I work hard to play hard..if this sounds like you, then we might be a great match!. Happy hunting and I hope we find each other. :)

  • Karina

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Just a quick note to all viewing my profile.... Please do not ask me for my personal contact information initially. It is not safe for me to share it with anyone I do not know. If that is what you are after, then please simply move on to someone else. If you care to know more, then continue reading.Thank you for viewing my profile. I am a divorced mother of three grown children ages 28, 26 and ***all three are college educated with their degrees in Engineering). I have been married only once which lasted nearly 16 years and I've been divorced 15 years now. I am independent, happy, confident (but modest), hard-working, considerate, honest, giving, caring and nurturing and patiently waiting for the one.My kids are my greatest accomplishment and a reflection of me. I am a proud mother and an empty nester, doing just fine. I own my own home in the country on nearly 4 acres. I enjoy working on my house and making it beautiful inside and out. I have learned to be handy which means I have needed to buy tools before shoes. :) Imagine that! I enjoy cooking, taking walks, being active and spending time outdoors. I love the ocean as I am drawn to water. I enjoy sitting around a fire especially on a warm summer night gazing up at the stars. I also enjoy a drive on a nice sunny day. I would love to explore the world with someone special and I hope someday to have that opportunity. I like who I am and feel I have alot to offer the right man. I am kind, respectful, loving, affectionate, loyal, mature, have a strong work ethic, and moral values but that does not make me a prude. I enjoy the company of a good man. I am looking for someone who would like to become good friends, develops into a romantic relationship and leads to long term relationship with possible marriage. Someone to share life with, support me and most of all, defend my honor. I have done it alone for a long time and have trusted that God has put people in my life for a reason. Perhaps you are the one for me. If any of this interests you, please drop me a line. If not, I wish you well in your search.The truly believe the best is yet to come! *****************************************************************************************************************************************************People will forget what you said. People will forget what you did. But people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou Something simple....just some time to determine if there is a mutual interest,attraction and connection. Drinks, a soda...... We can decide that together.****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one

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