Alma, 52
Online
About Me
Hmmm. well its getting close to me saying so long to this site, men arent serious, or they are way too old for me, sorry but I need someone near to my age, and has some energy left,while me being attracted to him, its life, we all need and want what we like, most men are either too far, arent into God...which thats a major issue, smoke way to much,which to me means they aent health conscious at all, or they are just rude when they message, like.... sup....what is that? I am sorry, I must be old fashioned to some degree, I think a man should say hello,and introduce himseIf as though he just may of met the gal he has been searching for,lol, read your profile and think....can we talk, please check out my profile, I have a recent picture, I am not far, and maybe we could meet after talking on the phone....is that too much to expect from grown men? I cant imagine it is, and if so...guess I wont find even a date on this site LOL Some of the men have sent rude messages talking about you like fishing, and something about getting their worm, that is just sick, is there no real normal nice men with some class on here or what? I am not some old lady or prude but give me a break here, I do want a gentleman that is respectful of a woman, we all get sarcastic sometimes, and joke around, I love to joke, but some things arent funny, they are down right rude and obnoxious,but some of these guys reallyyyy take the cake!!I am not one who expects model or super man, or millionaire, but lets face it, there has got to be some thing that makes a person special to you, and to me, and everything counts, from the way a person smiles, voice, loves his mom, cares for his family, treats a woman, and the ones he has had, treats people in general, as in waitress or neighbor, none of us are perfect, and we cant all get along with everyone, and there are 2 sides to every story, but lets face it, being around a person, no on line texting, or ***, or phone texting lol, but...face to face dating, talking on the phone, thats how you do it, if you have the texting as a means, then we arent a good match, I want to get to know you, now what you can tell me in a sentence, actions speak louder than texts , sorry but its a fact. And I am sticking to it. Adios, and good luck to you all ! I have a PHOTO to share, if you are SERIOUS about finding someone to be with,you will have a PHOTO also. I do need an attraction to the man I choose to be with, my guess is....he has to be attracted to me also. I am not interested in dating anyone that smokes often, as I am 90 % nonsmoker, I know its not good for you, and in future wont smoke at all. I need to date those in same situation or that dont smoke at all.Its not healthy habit, so I am not seeking one that is an avid smoker. I hope that clears up the reason I posted I smoke only occasionally. I answer those that I am interested in, I dont have time to answer all messages, so sorry if I dont get back to you, but I will if I have an interest, thank you for understanding, and dont take it personal. We all have in mind the person we are looking for. A caring touch, an understanding heart, warm smiles, gentle kisses to start, humor with a lovable laugh... what makes a man? A great heart, generous in all ways, time being the most important and love,and last but not least.... not condescending because of his position in life, this is what keeps most men single.......interested in some of life with a woman that is real, not perfect, not rich, a heart that feels and loves,is creative and caring, wants all life has to offer, is willing to work at something worth having and keeping.... if I do you, then say hello and invite out to meet if you really are serious. I am not looking to chit chat for weeks online here, thanks. I do however look for certain things in a man, as I am sure you all do in women. I like men with hair, and who are a bit taller than me, is my preference,taller the better. Guys...lets be real...you like what you like, we are the same. Its a two way street with me, it cant be all ONE WAY, its give and take in relationships also, I love a guy thats not a wimp but I dont want a control freak either.No I am not interested in a man that lives an hour or longer away, or that doesn't believe in God, that would be....non-religious, from my understanding, lol I also would like a man around my age give or a take a few years, one that is taller and hair would be nice. I am partial to that, along with a love for God. He doesn't have to be a saint, the Lord knows I am not.I do drink some, not a chronic drinker ok,I do it socially and occasionally at home, I do like wine too I smoke some, very little,dont want an avid smoker that smokes nonstop, I am working on quitting, pretty much there for the most part,except occasionally and with a drink. Just to let you men know, I have a job, I been paying my own way and living on my own with kids for over 14 years now, I dont want a sugar daddy or a guy for sex times, yes...that sex not six, lol I dont look for a man to pay my bills, nor to give me a home, I am fine right where I am thank you, if you must know! I I also go to school p.t.I will be and have been fine without a man paying my way, I would like to date a man that is looking for a woman to spend time with, not buy me things but its nice to get a gift,lol we all like them no?I dont seek a guy with a bike,could care less about that. I dont care how much you make, the man makes the money, the money don't make a man, in case you all don't know this. I am 52 not 25 lol I dated plenty of guys with money,many are selfish, and thats why they are single, not all of course, there are always exceptions to every rule, dont forget it! My kids are over 18 so I am seeking one in that situation or darn close to i.NUMBER ONE ON MY LIST... I want a man that has some time to spend with me, not all his extra time, but I am looking for more than a date here and there, thanks and best wishes to all. again...no I am not lookin for casual encounters as they word it on these sites, dont get me wrong, with a special person it will be great, but not trying out all the fish LOL Meet at a mutual public place, talk, have a drink,a coffee or beer, I drink many things,some appetizers,find common interests,talk, maybe dance, see if there is a mutual attraction whether its personalities or physical,its needs to be more than just looks I can vouge for that.There has to be something there that keeps you interested in each other. And noo..not gonna fool around first time we meet, if I want a one night stand I could find that,not seeking it on here, so sorry if thats you,a bar would suit you just fine if thats the case. Why cant men get that women want more?? We are emotional creatures, we want to get to know you, care for you,be with you, before we jump in the sack, its in our genes, we know whats in your jeans lol, and if we didnt like men we would be seeking women, but...it dont mean we first think of sex, lol , if we didnt like it however, we wouldnt want to date you at all, so be a gentleman, take a gal out on a date, if you dont want to be alone the rest of your life.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Divorced
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
No
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Average
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Height
5'4"
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Eye color
Blue
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Smoke
Yes, socially
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Drink
Yes, socially
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