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Anastasia, 52
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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I am just me, no frills, no pretense (...ok, a little with my stated age..maybe more than a little? A woman does not have to tell! ...), impish, imperfect, impatient, imaginative, irresponsible at times, impetuous, too, strong-willed, fiesty, sensual, sweet, smart, lovable, maybe cute, occasionally sexy. I love to laugh, have fun and am more fragile than I like to admit. I like to think that people are upfront and am still surprised when they are not. I appreciate that no one is perfect. 'You don't need to be perfect, just perfect for me'... I live in a world that works for me. I have made haunting choices and many that are OK. Every day is a gift to me (which I slowly unwrap), and it took way too many years to get where I am, a place of peace, as haphazard as it may appear, it is my place. I won't try to change you; let me be me, ok? There is an expression about not criticizing until we have walked a mile in someone else's shoes: I don't want you to wear my shoes, just walk beside me, maybe hold my hand if I am stumbling and I'll hold yours, too. I love to listen to music, enjoying the oldies as well as alternative, hip hop, current hits, some country, and more. Music is memories, it's fantasy, it's fun, it gets my body moving, wishing I could dance like they do on that TV show. I love to read. I enjoy being outside and love it when a new flower opens. Thinking about what makes me unique, I am struggling because we are all unique, all contributing some thing of value to the world. While we are all special, we also overlap in our qualities. I have been single for about eight years and like it, a lot. I am looking for male friends to have fun with, to get to know and see where it goes. Long-term doesn't scare me. While I can cook and did so pretty regularly for some ***years, I am not so much into it anymore. I bake for holidays. I love a good steak and dark chocolate as in hot fudge.I wear mostly black clothes because I feel best in that color. I prefer silver over gold for jewelry, and a multiple carat diamond is always nice. ')Mostly I am just me, a woman worth cherishing, spoiling, and loving.In advance, thanks to all who read this and write to me. While trying not to appear like a snob, more than likely you'll not hear back from me if spelling isn't up to par, or if there's a chance your mom and I are real close in age. While I enjoy a good time, I am not desperate, won't use you so I can score a free meal. I will look at your profile, pictures, for sure, and read what you have written. I am not a motorcycle momma. I will wonder why, with all your wonderful stated qualities, you are now single. I have been wooed by some good "woo-ers" who have raised the bar. I am not looking to 'hook up', rather more interested in friendships that have substance. Most of all, thank you for your kind words and for stopping here to have a look. ') A cool first date for me would be to meet in a public place where we could talk if we wanted, but with enough distractions if needed. Having a drink would be a good, too. I don't need nor want to be overly impressed..don't try too hard. Just be you so I can be me..be real. Maybe meet over a hot fudge sundae? That would rock!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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