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Shelby, 54
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

I hold the dichotomy: adrenaline rushes and meditative breathing; slice of pizza and a full-bodied red; Grateful Dead and Yo Yo Ma;; string theory and string cheese; physicality and spirituality. Can do corporate and bohemian. Life is how we frame it! Laughter is key. At ourselves, at our predicaments, at the joy in life. Or, perhaps, I am speaking of a sense of humor about it all.Looking for someone with a passion for life, accepting but not complacent about our imperfect offerings, a sense of abiding curiosity and well-founded confidence that is balanced with the knowledge that growth is a must. I believe (hope?) that I share these traits. "Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible."Dalai Lama"Sometimes you get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at right."Hunter/Garcia Seriously? Not bumper cars, we will save that for a third date. Definitely not a movie, no opportunity to talk. A dinner party with your friends, maybe 4th date (we can witness each other in a social context). How about a long walk on a beach, at sunset.-- with a glass of champagne. Phew. I finally figured out the perfect first date.And now I see that this box is optional? Fine - Starbucks.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Middle Eastern Thai Adventure Crime
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  • Eva from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Scorpio
    Eva

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hopeless romantic looking for a intelligent, affectionate, secure single man. Please no one that is still married, still living with their ex, recently separated or recently widowed or live outside the GTA. Yes, my pictures are recent!I'm a woman...I don't have an amazing figure or a flatstomach. I'm far from being considered a model, but I'm me. I eat food. I have curves. I have scars because I have a history. Some people love me, some like me, some hate me. I have done good. I have done bad. I love my PJ's and I go without makeup and sometimes I don't get my hair done. I'm random and crazy. I push doors that clearly say PULL. I laugh harder when I try to explain why I'm laughing. I walk into a room and forget why I was there. I count math on my fingers. I say it's long story when it's really not. I care about people that don't care about me. I try to do things before the microwave beeps. A hug and kiss on the forehead will always help.

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  • Antoinette from Groton | Woman | 51 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    I really don't like writing on these things and judging by the *** receive, I have to wonder if anyone really reads it anyway. Love music, fun, intelligent conversation, wit and passionate people. Free spirited, healthy minded, honest, open minded, kind hearted and unique. If that strikes an interest, ***

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  • Luella from Groton | Woman | 53 years old | Capricorn
    Luella

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    I am very serious about my job which is a Dental Hygienist. I am very interested in helping people. I have a very nice relationship with my patients. I am very friendly and kind to all people. I love sports, either playing or watching . I prefer sports over any television show. My 2 children are athletic and are also very good dancers. I love watching them perform. I just love watching anybody's children perform. My pastimes are reading and knitting. I do like alone time and I think it's important to have alone time to get to know who you really are. I am very independent but also would love a partner whom I can share time together with.

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