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Viola, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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About Me

I love to do anything outdoors-go to the beach-to jazz festivals-camping-Nascar-to the mountains. I love to laugh and just have fun. I was in a really great relationship and I want that again. I can't stand the thought that I won't have that again..A best friend, a companion. I'm at the age where my kids are grown and I've done my part which I absolutely loved, but they are doing they're own thing now-not hanging out with Mom. I just want to have fun, maybe do some traveling. I actually like a lot of different kinds of music-country, old rock, jazz, love Bob Seger and The Eagles, Eric Clapton, AC/DC(showing my age now). The guys on this site-or maybe all guys in general-seem to have this problem with drama-I don't think I'm a high drama person-I'm pretty laid back-it's all small stuff, right? I have to admit that I was an online dating snob and thought only losers had to date online and thought my soulmate was magically going to appear like in the movies-I have since learned differently-where do you meet people if you don't hang out in bars-so I stand corrected.***So now I have been on here for about a month and have had quite a few dates and lots of chats and I know what I don't want and please keep on fishin if you are one of these! I don't want someone who is not yet divorced; someone who wants to be FWB; someone who wants to send me naked pics before I have even met you and why do you have these pics of yourself in your phone anyway???; someone who doesn't open the door for me-always; someone who just talks about how much money he has-just not my thing-I'm into who you are not what you have. Don't get me wrong, I think this site is great and have met some really great guys, but like the site says-there are Plenty of Fish in the sea so please move on if you fit any of the descriptions above. Happy fishing!!! I think our first date should be short and sweet-maybe meet for a drink-we'll both know pretty quickly whether there's that "spark". I'm a huge believer in chemistry-either we have it or we don't-period-so I don't think we should waste each other's time if we aren't "feeling it".

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Drama
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