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Sharlene, 51
United States, Connecticut, Groton

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I love life and take enjoyment in just about everything I do. Life is too short so I try to live it to the fullest. I'm outgoing and a bit crazy in a good way I like to have fun and tease so I hope you can take a joke I'm not the serious type.And 'm not conservative I'm a bit of an odd ball but I really don't care what anyone thinks about me you either like me or you don't and most people like me. I'm an optimistic person and always look on the bright side of things even in a bad situation I believe everything happens for a reason. And I would like the same in my partner. I like being outdoors. I workout and walk almost every day and eat healthy to keep in shape. I like the beach, and horseback riding.Y. I love to dance and do enjoy going out dancing once in a while. I like all kinds of music and I like to go to concerts. I love my job and have been at the same job for 22 yrs. I have a beautiful 15 yr.old daughter shes a great kid thank god. I am looking for that someone special that I can share my life with not live their's. I'm a very independent person I don't need someone I want someone to grow old with. I'm a confident beautiful women on the inside and out very easy going if you treat me right. I always say treat people the way you would want them to treat you. I'm not a bossy person I believe that people should be free to make their own choice's but be careful what you choose. I'm mainly looking for someone honest, caring & trustworthy, with a good sense of humor to make me laugh and of course a gentlemen is a must. I like someone with old fashion ways and good values. I don't like lies. Always tell the truth and never worry about getting caught in a lie. I'm up-dating my profile I think its about time. I am so tired of the texting back and forth, have people forgotten how to talk to one another soon we will lose our ability to speak. I have found that people are on here to waste time texting back and forth for weeks I guess they have nothing better to do please don't waste my time I'm much to busy. I much rather talk to a person and hear there voice. What I'm looking for is start out slow see how things go and if things are right eventually one day down the road turn into a serious relationship. People are to much in a hurry to find love that they don't give it a chance to grow. You cant hurry love if its right it will happen. For god sake's a lightning bolt is not going to hit you in the head on the first date and your going to find love it don't work like that people give it a chance. So please if your not looking for the same thing as me don't bother contacting me. And no serial daters please and no married men go back to your wives and tell them how much you love them and try to make it work because if they stayed with you this long your very lucky to have them. I hope everyone finds what their looking for. Thank you and have a great day. And yes my pictures are all current I do look like that only better in person really. I like to get to know someone to see how they are and what better way to get to know someone than talking over dinner for a few hours. Then maybe after dinner if its the summer take a long walk on the beach.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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