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Bettye, 53
United States, Virginia, Haymarket

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About Me

My life has been full. The future is my mystery to search and surprises I look forward too. I am looking forward to good and healthy surprises to share with someone special.. I have owned businesses, worked in the medical field, and bartended. Being retired, I have time to play!I am a family oriented, loyal, goal setting, silly, smart, sarcastic at times, young at heart woman. I smile alot, laugh easily, not a fan of tears but, they come easy. I prefer happy. . I love to spend time with family and friends. I am passionate about life and an open person. I love to cook, with someone is always better. Quads, fishing, camping, rafting, travel, dancing, music. Let's go. Fine dining is fabulous, LBD works, I love to do girly but, old jeans and tee are my best friend too. . I eat healthy and not a fan of the gym but, bike riding, gardening, pool care among other things, keeps me busy. I am self-reliant, was raised to be a bit of a tomboy. I bait my own hook, thank you. I want to learn to fly fish! I was nine when I started riding motorcycles and still love to do so. I love spontaneity and much of my life is just that. I have 2 fantastic grown children, 7 amazing grand children. I am trustworthy, honest, loyal, and loving.Please be of normal and healthy weight. I don't want to offend anyone but, I am not attracted to short and/or heavy men. I find it so sexy when a man is self confident. Down time is great but, I would like an active man that wants a equal partner. Walking side by side is much healthier and happier. Some men do not like a challenging woman........if you are one of those.....I am not for you. I think it is exciting, stimulating, and satisfying when two can exchange ideas, respect the others intelligence and opinions and maybe, agree to disagree.I like a funny, good looking, tall, honest and quality man. Financially secure and responsible ( I am too) We all have some baggage and are not perfect. Acceptance is a good thing. Lets go grab a coffee and talk a bit......wine and talk a lot......

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Japanese Mexican
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