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Jem, 41
United States, California, Carlsbad

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About Me

Ocean lover. Mom to an amazing little boy. Former Park Ranger. Looking for friends or maybe someone who gives that "spark" I haven't had in years. Intelligent and emotionally attune. Almost have to be a surfer! I am honest to a fault at times, but polite and love to smile. Attractive faces are important (and maybe some muscle!), but the spirit of a person is the thing that gets on my radar. It's that "it" thing. Quiet is fine. I prefer calm men who are respectful and patient. Financially secure and mentally healthy are a must. No nutty stuff. Just a SoCal girl who wants to have fun, and maybe more. Get to know me first, though. And I look forward to getting to know you! P.S. Never used a site like this before. So best to shoot me an *** think we are compatible. I'm turning 38 in April. Life is really beautiful. And I would love someone to share it with.. traveling (by the way, I am not an *** and hey, if we just become surf buddies or something, that's cool, too. Not looking for a one night stand. Stability and accountability. Sexiness is a plus. :) ***

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, they live with me

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Craft Making Dance Gardening Music Drawing / Painting Photography Reading Shopping Swimming Traveling Walking Watching Movies Watching TV Outdoor Hobbies Pets Spirituality Watching Sports
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