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Lee, 36
United States, California, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Sat, 17 Jan 2026 13:40:07

About Me

Uggghhh. I hate this part. I am single again after 4.5 years.I work full time and have my own place. I'm looking for someone who is energetic, positive and has their life together or at least somewhat together. I am not into drama or games. I don't have time for that and hopefully neither do u.I know what I want and won't settle for anything less. Obviously attraction plays a huge role in the dating process. I'm attracted to clean cut, well-groomed men. I have a few tattoos and a piercing and find that sexy in a man. I'm an extremely honest person and expect the same. I have a sarcastic, witty and crude sense of humor and I have been told that I'm a "cool chick", whatever that means. Lol. I'm just open-minded and chill. I like to go out and do stuff and things but I can stay at home too. I have a lot of hobbies so I don't need constant attention nor do I want it or want to be with someone who needs it. Besides my one long term relationship, I have been alone most my life but I still have hope that I won't have to be alone forever!!I'm an open book, so don't be afraid to ask me a question.Anything social

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    Yes, but they don't live with me

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    No

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