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Patsy, 43
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

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Have you ever spent time and effort spoiling someone to get nothing in return? Well I am NOT THAT WOMAN. I am a giving person and believe in the fairy tale. Relationships work 2 ways, not one way. I love racing, yet after being beind the seens of the big leagues, it is difficult for me to watch a full race. Pretty much enjoy all sports. Warm weather finds me out and about doing anything and everything. Random road trips are the best.Life is too short to waste on the same old stuff. I'm not afraid to try new things and challenge myself. I may screw up, but I can guarentee that I will be the first one laughing at myself. Like the day the wall just couldn't resist giving me a kiss. That would have been more enjoyable had it not been for a full face plant resulting in a picture falling on my head. :) Why stress over small silly things when you can turn them into something fun? I want to dance in the rain, be a kid again and enjoy sillyness. I love to travel though I don't get to near as much as I would like. My children are active in school and their sports are amazing to watch. I'm the crazy mom coaching from her bleacher seat and the sidelines and encouraging the entire team. They are my world and when times get tough, I look at them and determination kicks in again. I wont fail them nor set a bad example. I'm musically diverse and can listen to just about anything. I enjoy cooking and baking, yet with teens in the house, they dont seem to care how much time is put into making dinner. I don't expect much but look more at the little things. Things like dinner ready if I have a late day, a load of laundry done, or just a note in the morning let me know I am thought of. I don't want the relationship of 'obligation' to do things but the 'I want to do this for you' kind of relationship. Surprise dates are great but I want someone that is willing to plan the evening.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Mexican Portuguese Adventure Horror Western Archery Nascar Sailing
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