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Kaitlin, 43
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

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I'm going to make this easy, and straight to the point...so lean in closer boys, fasten your seatbelts and pay close attention:)....(u may be quizzed later...*..loyal, passionate, compassionate, humorous, outgoing, and far from shy,,,,I do as i say, and i say what i mean, period.I truly like who i am as a person, recognizing still that i can always try to be even better:)I won't get into a physical description as i have more then enough pics that can speak for themselves,,,,,curves and all;)I come with a great network of friends, and an amazing family...and because of that i won't just let "anyone" join in....they've got to be special! which leads me to.......YOU:You are between the ages of 38 and ***max)You live within the GTA, and no longer live with mommy and daddy and do drive;)You are of ideally european decent and were raised with those core values....(open to mixed and black as well, attraction is attraction;)You are tall, dark, and cuuuute!...(ok, i can flex on the tall-part if need be,,,lol)You are emotionally available, MEANING.....and wouldn't be afraid to pursue those possibilities, one day at a time!....(gotta love all the guys that think just b/c a women is looking ULTIMITELY for a relationship...that she will just settle on just "anyone"....soooooooo not the case here, sorry! i have to feel the connection!!!!! i'd much rather be alone and happy, then attached and miserable...and so would you:)You like animals, and children,,,,it speaks volumes about a person and their character i think...soooooooo....here's the deal.....i look at ppls pics...AND i read (and respect) their wish lists, so PLZ respect mine!!!!....and if u think we could hit it off then gimme a shout and we'll do it up!!!!!!!!***Please, have pics available on here if ur gonna make contact, just like i do;)......and be from the GTA as well; But don't think I'll be getting out there anytime soon! Lol!)***Although I am short myself, I DO wear heels, and don't feel comfortable towering over my man, lol...therefore I'd prefer that u'd be 5'8 or taller. I feel the need to mention this as it seems as though every man on here that's btwn 5'3-5'7" has made contact with me this far, possibly cuz I too am short,lol, but it still doesn't mean that my preference leans towards short men;)..no different that someone not being into blondes, or curves;) we ALL have our prefrences, and it's finding our match that is key! So good luck to us all! Lol!Random things I've noticed on POF:-most guys don't read the profiles, or if they do, just "ignore" points in it anyways! -same with that "meet me"; (see above!) Lol-there seems to be MANY, MANY guys (to the point it's very strange), that are late 30's and early 40's (+), that are STILL in that "looking to date, but nothing serious" stage,,,,,for those, unless u've JUST come out of a longterm relationship,,,GROW UP;)-why is it that the majority of the black men on here feel that they need to literally state that they are black?!! What's the difference??!! It shouldn't matter, but there also should have to be a need to state the obvious either! Lol!-why do people on here seem to LUV takimg pics of themselves, with sunglasses on, inside?? (Ie:in their bathroom, sunglasses on, in front of their webcam, yep-sunglasses on...u get the point;)-most guys on here seem to think that "hi", simply 'hi",,,is starting a conversation, and is gonna get them somewhere on here,,it's not, lol. Nor is opening with something sexual in nature,,,,that, gets u deleted and blocked;)Will be adding to the list with future observations/comments I'm sure! IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY BABYYYYY!!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean Italian Mexican Dirt Bike Racing Tennis
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