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Jenny, 42
United States, Louisiana, Ruston

Offline, last seen Wed, 24 Dec 2025 22:36:53

About Me

Here's my story: I was married for nine years, then in a relationship for nine years, so I know what I want and don't want, and I definitely don't want anybody's time being wasted, not yours, not mine. With that being said, I am looking for a life companion and partner who is ready to build a life and start a family together based upon traditional values, not just someone to spend free time with, but rather someone who will share his interests and hobbies and who will share my interests and hobbies. If you want to cook/bbq together, plan events together, entertain together, occasionally work out together, listen to music together (this is especially important), dance slowly together (looove this), plan trips together, and come home after work and spend most evenings doing whatever together, then I might be for you. I am passionate about my interests (I am passionate period), and I especially love music and yoga, as both keep me centered. Some of my favorite music includes The Beatles, The Who, Eminem, Kid Rock, Bob Seger, and Alanis Morisette. I also love practicing my basketball moves and shots (I have potential....and some even like my style!), hitting softballs (I do really well in the batting cage!......and cute attire!), playing pool (I can hold my own), taking walks, bike riding, and travelling. While I am passionate about my interests, I also try to maintain balance in my life and try not to sweat the small stuff, so I love to laugh and I can laugh at myself.The most important aspects of a solid relationship to me include communication, honesty, loyalty, and a good sense of humor. Since the success of any relationship remains contingent upon effective communication skills, my significant other must be willing to communicate when situations arise. Honesty and loyalty remain equally important for obvious reasons. And a good sense of humor makes everyday life fun and interesting.I highly value my family and friends and am grateful to have them all in my life. I am the youngest of four siblings and have very strong ties to them and to my parents. I am very family oriented and require the same from my life partner; if you definitely don't want kids or are not sure if you want kids, then I am not for you. I appreciate a good man who can appreciate a good woman, and who can reciprocate all that is given to him in a relationship, both tangible and intangible. I am emotionally secure and ready to make the commitment, but am missing my life companion and partner with whom I can form a deep life-long connection. I look forward to meeting that person who would like to build a life and start a family together, as I've said, based upon traditional values. .....coffee during the day or shooting pool in the evening

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Japanese Mexican Spanish Martial Arts Sci-Fi War
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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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