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Saundra, 45

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About Me

I realize this eliminates everyone with children under 18, but I also feel this is the best approach - an up-front honest one. I am looking for a real man that picks up a phone and plans a date. A little about me - I am spontaneous, independent, warm, intelligent, self-supporting, driven, sophisticated, and polished. I enjoy good music, fine wine and dining out. I have self-respect,can dress up or dress down, and don't take myself too seriously. Looking for a man who knows who he is, no drama, and knows his way around the finer things in life. In many ways, I am a free spirit but I know what it takes to make a living and build a relationship. I like to work out, including Yoga, Mountain Biking, Running. Surprising me with a fun night out is one of the things I love. Please be polished, polite, attentive, put a lady first, be a good speller or at least use spell check! Please be chivalrous, kind, masculine, and be courteous to family, friends and waiters in restaurants. I look forward to enjoying all the Windy City has to offer while I'm here. A night out, sharing some laughs and getting to know each other. If sparks fly, then to be continued...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

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