Pamela, 31
Online
About Me
I am a teacher. I am torn between elementary and middle school, because you can't coach, but who could not teach those adorable first graders. I am laid back, and love to be outside. I like playing any sport really. I was raised with my brother and we did everything together. I like to go fishing and camping, and anything on a boat. I am not a city girl at heart. I love country music and dancing badly to it. I am not the girl who is dressed every day, I wear a lot of athletic gear and get dressed up, on the weekends. I am also a sharp shooter,( with a gun and my words),,what what,,,,and I do my best not to lie,,and when I do it is in a joke.,,I kind of kick ass, which I think every girl should know how to do it,,,,and when not to do it...i work for what i want,,, and i dont let people change my mind easily,,,,i am very outgoing and i can be in any where and feel comfortable....i believe in building people ,,,but in a realistic way......and getting sh*tdone...i love country life...I love good men, hardworking, men of integrity, i love men who stand up for people, and who kick ass if it needs to be done. Like if were out somewhere and someone grabs my ass, your going to need to kick their ass, cause i hate that shit, its disgusting, and if someone says something ****ed up to me ur going to have to check them..Most of the time men are real nice, but a lot step beyond the boundaries of respect and too many good men just look the other way and I need someone who is honorably violent...lolI was in the Navy, and I lived in Japan, and worked in international military telecommunications. I guess, I was "Big Brother", screening military communications. I loved my job. . A blonde contradiction I guess. I know people believe I am lying or joking when I say this, but it's true.and i got the evidence to back me up..lol i dont have to lyeI am very smart, but an awful speller...lol we all have our weaknesses...and i dont care to edit,,,because assume that u know I made it out of 6th grade, so clearly i have the ability to place my comma correctly if i want...but i am a busy person,,and i dont have the time to edit...and it doesnt bother me if you know i misused it...lol it says more about u for judging me for my misuse than it does about me.....I am very serious about all I do, and if I'm not, then I won't do it,,I am serious about who I date, and the qualities they need to have, and this doesn't mean they have to be the hottest guy on here..i have loved a few men who baffled other people, but I saw their heart and their motivations, and they earned my respect, and even when they would ask me if their hotter friend wasn't more my taste,,,they were shocked....lol as were my friends...u have to work hard.... u have to have a kind heart.......i like cops,firemen, but the ones who want the job cause they want to help,,,,you just have to be one of those people who want to help people,,,cause i am...i am very protective of people,, and i try to take care of them in so many ways even though my intentions to them are not always clearly stated or understood,,,i wont tell you every detail of my life....i like to stay composed....i maintain my status by holding back,,,,because i dont like pity...it's weird to me ...its like your saying hey you should feel bad about your life...i am not they usual female..who cries about useless shit...i like criticism...and other peoples advice...it makes me a better person sometimes,...and i need that...i also hate when women and men talk about each other..gossip never earned my respect...i hate that shit...if u got something to say...say it to them..not everyone else,,,,thats how we solve problems,,,,but gossips make wars and contention..im not here to date for fun....its not something i do casually because i do not like to take time away from my kid ...or from my work...or from running my home...i am very serious and intense,,,yet funny...and playful for the right person...and i only date one person at a time ..and i and very loyal to my friends, family and those i love....but it takes a lot to get there ,,lol i dont lie which sometimes gets me in trouble...no one likes the truth today....they just say that lol i am most likely a genius ,,,but i dont tell people that, like my family and friends, and a lot of them dont know sh*tabout my career in the military, for one simple reason..i dont need them to compare themselves to me and feel bad about who they are..and i dont want them trying to constantly prove me wrong too...see i dont need people to know about my success,,,because it just makes them feel that they arnt...and i dont like to inflict unnecessary pain...i also dont think its a sin to not be as smart as I am..some of us are born smarter,,and we have more advantages, and its our responsibility to share our wisdom,,,it isnt for us judge everybody else as dumb....ill take a "dumb,nice" person over a genius ass anytime,,,see those people who really think they are smart arnt never as smart as I am,,,those people who brag about being i,,,and bla bla bla ...one of the indicators of true genius is that we are loving and understanding people,,we are not those mean characters in books...think mother teresa......and the ones you met in your like i am sure you didnt know ....we are the people who read a speech in class, and we bring the room to tears. ..we are the ones who see both sides of the story,,,and beyond emotion...enough ... bars,,,,batting cages,,..parks..or just hanging out.... ...shooting
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Divorced
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
No
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Athletic
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Height
5'6"
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Eye color
Hazel
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Smoke
Yes, socially
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Drink
Yes, socially
INTERESTS
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