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Estela, 53

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About Me

I have a vision of relationship with a loving, funny, big-hearted man who has a strong spiritual focus and who desires a deeply loving, committed, monogamous union with his best friend and soul mate. Whether this vision will become a reality or not, I am enjoying the journey nonetheless and am very happy in my life - but to avoid any waste of time, here are some fun facts about me which will resonate with you (or not):I enjoy deep, interpersonal conversations about God, Life, our belief systems, what motivates people and their behaviors, and am open and flexible to other points of view - my education comes mostly from the School of Life, I'm a great listener, and an intelligent conversationalist.I am honest and faithful to a fault, and I look for the same in my partner - this enables us to bypass the games and go straight to the heart of the matter, what's really important between two people."A man's greatest treasure is a woman's heart." I heard this quote recently which made me think about love from a new angle, but I'm not sure I agree with it, only because I am a parent and I cannot imagine any treasure greater than the blessing of a child. But I like the quote anyway because the anonymous person who wrote it must have understood the value of having the love of a woman in his life.I'm very well-traveled and lived in Monte Carlo for a few years, which was an unforgettable experience.- but I'm not finished with Europe, and look forward to more travels in the future. I'm pretty funny, and I love to laugh ... a LOT :)One more quote I ran across recently which caught my attention: "If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy - Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the one worth suffering for." -- Bob Marley … Now, I don't know if you will find me amazing or not, but if you do, then I promise that the reward will be SO much greater than the suffering :)I find that sometimes the biggest hurdle towards meeting someone is in making the first move – hey, we might have much more in common than you might think initially :) And what have you got to lose?Here are some key words and phrases that are meaningful to me: Dancing as though no one is watching; a life filled with love and laughter; to love someone deeply; family life; best friend and confidante; strong communicator; fun; living in color and laughing out loud; prayer and meditation; humor; love of children and animals; spiritual courage; Passionate Love; the poetry of Rumi; conscious relationship; financially stable and secure with the ability to give and receive in abundance; deep intimacy and connectedness; honesty; love of music; love without pulling back; flexibility; healthy living; smells good; trustworthy and dependable; emotional expansion; self-confidence; Love of My Life; integrity; God-filled marriage;; mutual trust ... After one or more successful, flowing phone conversations, we will want to meet in person to check out the personal chemistry - if this meeting is successful and if we agree to meet again, then this would be the first date. At this point, the sky's the limit as far as what we might do, I'm very flexible - and it would not be about the activity we might engage in, but about the quality of exchange between us, and this is when it starts to get interesting :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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