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Vanessa, 41
United States, Florida, North Port

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About Me

I know i can enhance your life, keep your attention, challenge you, teach you and love you. Can you do the same for me? i deserve an equal. I have many passions and hobbies. Never a lack for conversation. Looking for someone authentic I'm intuitive. Can't fool me :)I work for an airline doing reservations, practice reiki, cut rocks, make jewelry, and much more. Love to laugh and be spontaneous. I'm sarcastic. I'd like to think I'm funny. Very witty. If you can't handle some profanity might want to avoid me. I smile and laugh alot. I have the kind of laugh you hear across the room. I also have a diabolical laugh. If you hear that one your in trouble :) I'm a hugger and a good one at that. Since i'm very social I speak to strangers and make conversation everywhere.I give great shoulder rubs. I get along with everybody. I have many clients and friends that are guys. If you are the jealous insecure type, move on..Why am I unique?? Umm I have a ninja sword, I drive around with a huge rosé quartz in my car. I can carry a full conversation without words, just eye contact. I don't put energy on money like most people. I consider it bubbles. Way more fun! Music is a big part of my life. I like many types of music. I like all movies ill watch pretty much anything. If its scary though I'm a squeezer and a screamer. I cry in the chick flicks too I love every kind of food and culture. Love to travel. I love to cook. Havent had much time these days but I can cook just about anything from tamales, fried chicken, chicken parmesan with homemade marinara etc. Just looking to meet new people and experience life. Always up for adventure or just to chill. If you like what you see just message me! Please more than two words. I generally won't reply to "hi". I'm emotionally stable and available. I don't want to hear all about your terrible exes. If we all had amazing exes we wouldn't be on here... just saying... Some information is appreciated but not necessary. I am curvy. I do have some extra pounds. If you have a problem with that I could use a work out buddy. I'm confident with my body however. Not an issue for me. I embrace ALL of me! I have 4 kids. And if your still reading this they are great. And I'm not just saying that. 3 boys 17, 14, 10. My daughter is 11. If having babies is a must for you I'm not your girl. Closed that chapter of my life. I love fortune cookies. Just the fortune. I always pick the best ones! I don't sweat the small stuff. Nothing you say could shock me. Honestly.I've lost people very close to me. Had many life experiences I've grown from. I live each day to the fullest. I hold the ones I love close and I'm grateful for every day of life I'm gifted. Reiki is a huge part of my life. Its a japanese form of energy healing. I have experienced many miracles through reiki. I have the best stories and I love to share them. I also read angel cards. Disclaimers***Honestly im tired of having sex thrown at me or people asking for nude pics. I'm craving romance, friendship and nurturing first. I don't need someone to save me or take care of me. I am financially secure. I own a home and have it together. I work hard. Please don't ask me for money (yes that happens). I'm not looking for another dependent. No addicts please! Not interested in dating anyone I'm old enough to be their mom or daughter. I have lots of old and young friends. Just not romantic interests. Thanks. Sushi, drinks, hike, sunset watching. Or any adventure will do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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