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Elvia, 53

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About Me

On the "surface", I am an active, adventurous, curious about life, fairly balanced, sensual and caring person. Cuddling in front of a roaring fire, and having an interesting conversation or watching a good movie together are as nice as going for a walk in the autumn fog along the beach, or occasionally dressing up for a nice dinner or a night out to the theatre. However, it really is that these things keep my curiosity alive and touch my heart that makes them important to me. So, travelling the world is not about the places per se, it's what is new and different and fascinating about them; it is not about visiting them, but about experiencing them, soaking in the colours, the smells, the sounds, the tastes...feeling them literally and emotionally. It is about connecting with people, even if you don't understand what they are saying - just as you would connect to a piece of music or a painting that speaks to you, even though you may not have a formal understanding of them. Likewise, it is the connection to and the feelings for each other that make a partnership strong and deep and passionate, not the "doing things" together. Connection for me happens when I can open my heart and soul to my partner, when I feel so safe that I allow myself to be vulnerable - and when he feels that he can do the same in reverse. It is the little things in life that make all the difference in this respect: an open smile, a gentle touch, a comforting hug, a soft kiss, tuning into the other person, listening, accepting. Like everyone else I have my flaws, but I try to be aware of them and to improve on them while keeping true to my authentic self. I would expect from a partner that he would do the same about himself. I'm pretty independent, but am ready to have a more constant male presence in my life again. This person must be honest, loyal, faithful, kind, have a sense of humour, have interests of their own, be somewhat active and professionally & financially stable. I am not interested in a casual relationship, but would want to tread a bit carefully while figuring out where things may go. Well, that's a bit about me and what I'm looking for. Grab a coffee and go for a walk

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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