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Effie, 53

United States, Florida, Jacksonville Beach

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True living is finding the fun in each situation. Have less, do more. It's not so much about what you have as it is about what you do with what you have. I feel life was given to be lived and should be measured by the amount of times your stomach hurts from laughing to hard rather than the lines on your face. My business takes up little time and mostly can be done from any Starbucks allowing me time for traveling, not touristing. Meeting the locals and experiencing the culture in each place I visit is very high on my list. I am easily comfortable in my surroundings and integrate well. Although I have enjoyed traveling alone, it would be nice to travel with a companion again.My cup is almost full, baggage free, financially secure, self sufficient, interesting, worldly looking for romance and someone to share the fun in life. My house, where I keep my "stuff", is located rurally on several acres so I enjoy the contrast of city life. I don't mind being the commuter if thats what it takes to share my free time with that special someone.Mmmmmmm dark chocolate, red wine and 3:00 in the afternoon! Whoops, off track!I feel very fortunate and am very appreciative of my many close, long term friendships and I am a big hearted person with lots of love to share. LIKES:Fun.Adventure.Unplanned experiences.People.Laughing out loud.Physical touch. Sexual Monogamy.Romance.Color green.Problem solving.DISLIKES:Shopping.Drama Queens.Negativity.Jealousy.Arrogance.Couch potatoes.Fast food.Game players.Must B's for intimate relationship:Intelligent.Social.Forward thinking.Have the ability to travel.Health minded.Open minded.Fun.Easy going.Single.Waist less than 38" or 40" if you are extra tall, (I am not superficial but I cant have an intimate relationship with a person that does not take care of their health)All of these are not required for hanging out or dating.I am not looking to make your house a home or be a mommy to your children. I don’t want to change you, I want to be able to accept you. I want you to be the one I can compromise with and who will accept me. I recently had a man message me "with all your criteria, you have weeded out 99% of the men, how do you expect to have any luck on this site?” My answer to that is “how do I weed out another .7%” LOL I am not here to “get lucky” or just date a bunch of men or waste time, I actually think there is someone out there for me. I don’t do well with fish that want or need a hook with a heavy leader line. The only jealousy I will tolerate is the jealousy of other men when they see the attention I give my man.Photos provided on request include a picture of my car, my neighbors dog and cat, a sunset of who knows where and a picture of me in my bathroom mirror showing off my IPhone flash. Please write with more than a mere “nice legs” if you want to get my attention. There is a real person behind those photos. I don’t bite (OK, maybe a little rough nibble). Statistics:73% of women fudge or don’t tell their age.66% of men fudge or exaggerate about their size.I fudge a little but my pictures are current. V.V. Good wine, good food and good company!Let's be in the moment and skip the interview process!!!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Music Western Outdoor Hobbies
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