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Maura, 53
United States, Florida, Jacksonville Beach

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To a new year of finding that special someone, especially now after finding out a good friend/neighbour was found passed away in his home feb ***, life is full of not so good surprises which makes one appreciate each day more. To a more satisfying life to share with someone, where we click, that's the hard part. Chemistry either it's there or it isn't, we'll know within a few minutes of meeting each other. There is a lot of great guys out there with big hearts, but if there is no chemistry/physical/sexual connection, what's the point and also no pic no reply. If you have e.d. from drinking too much and need alcohol as soon as you get home from work, please pass me on by, that just isn't a lifestyle I am interested in, life is too short for such nonsense. I'm looking for friendship to start and take things slow, if it's meant to be more it will unfold naturally over time. I believe honesty and communication are the cornerstone to any relationship, without it you end up with emptiness.IT IS IN THE KISS, I am looking for someone who can cup my face in their hands and give me the kiss i'll never forget. I'm seeking an affectionate, emotionally and financially stable man, who is ready & knows changes to their life as a single will be changed for the better.I'm looking for someone mature, emotionally available and realizes at our age they will appreciate finding someone who's into taking care of their body, I do so why shouldn't you, not a game player, true & blue loyal, independent, has her own money and assets, is intelligent, sexy, wants to love and be loved, is affectionate and makes love with enthusiasm and passion is very important. I don't expect more than what i can give. I am not looking to be in someone's life just for the sake of them having someone to be there once in a while... I want to be desired, cherished, loved, appreciated and thought more of than just a person to fill some empty time slot...I'd rather be alone and not go through the pretense and energy thinking it might become more. I want to start something that has a chance for something that is real and solid with thoughts of being together in the future. Life is for the living and it isn't a dress rehearsal; this is our only shot at it. Therefore, I want a witness to the next stage of my life. I'm tired of saying good bye or being said good bye to, either way it hurts. I'm looking for the one that there are no good byes. I'm ready to take a chance again & share my life with someone who is also ready. I'm not wanting a casual relationship nor wanting to become a serial dater. Guys please have done your reflecting and know you are ready for a committed relationship before having someone enter your life under false pretenses. Life is too short for games and it's hard on the heart.Must add that if your separated or recently had a break up, call me when your divorced/over it and past all the pain and can trust again. I wish to move forward and someone still uncertain of making the next step is a ways behind my progress. I've seen how second thoughts work and don't wish to be part of a what if scenario again, thanks. My world has moved forward, and I expect no less than that in a man that could become part of the last one I ever wish to kiss and make love to.I would like to be with someone that wants to spend time travelling a few times a year. Animals rights are closely held to my heart, so you must love animals. Animal rescue and advocacy is a passion of mine. I'm not perfect nor looking for perfect. I want someone who can go the distance with True Staying Power.If you have done your reflecting & dealt with your baggage, it's just common sense there are no games. Looking for someone who is comfortable communicating from their soul. I am looking for respect and treated like a lady. I'm a giving/helpful & compassionate person and simply want the same. Arrogance, self-absorbed & vulgarity aren't a good fit for me neither are games.I need someone that doesn't want to change me, no 'my way or the highway' or players for me, I want someone who is serious about commitment, has honest intentions and is faithful. I live my life by this philosophy 'if you have nothing to hide..you hide nothing' I expect the same.I'm longing to find that 1 great companion that sees my positives.Update: I have said, I am looking for long term, as that is my path to follow. The start is dating, and then moving forward with the thoughts of perhaps it becomes you and I forever someday. Be honest in your intentions, for although life is the longest thing we have, my chances to reach out in the middle of the night to touch you beside me, is reducing daily. A dog walk with my 3 dogs and yours if you have any......a nature walk in dry warm weather....or a tea/coffee and a chat to get to know each other and determine if there's enough chemistry for a second date..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Disco Indian Korean Spanish Thai Crime History Archery
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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Easter has come and gone and holidays are on the rise. What's next? Oh I have a new line. We're done with how are you and what's new. The new line is ***What's Good? Makes you think doesn't it?-windy day to train in. The eyes got worse but the possibility of surgery is on the horizon!!!!!!!!!! Hey I might even be able to put the glasses away and do funky *** functional hats!!!!!!!!!! I haven't done any events yet but I'm still thinking up a new one. I want a new theme with a different twist. It'll come to me. Oh and I did let the long hair down as the new pics evidence. I'm thinking..............purple and silver??? It's worth a shot.HAPPY EASTER to all!!! Should I get back into planning events?Time does pass quickly. I've been away from the computer for a while. It crashed. I'm back up and running now computer wise. I had to slow down the outside running as my eyes are having a lot of trouble with the wind. I do have to apologize if I say no or don't respond to *** I have an older computer much like the last on I had. It couldn't handle the *** and crashed on me. I don't want this one to crash as well. If you would like to say hi please do so with a regular message. I do respond to all messages I receive this way. Well I should have updated a while ago. I still had the event from January up. OKAY!!! Not only did I survive but I remained vertical as I crossed the finish line and better than that I shaved over 20 minutes off my last years time! Does it get any better than that. Okay I'll plan another event now. I'm 5'5" with an average build. I have dark hair with highlights. Okay change that to I have low lights, highlights and a little salt and pepper - a veritable smorgasbord! I really need to get the new pics up. I have tried something new altogether. I'm helping out an African family and decided to learn about another ethnicity. I now have a multitude of braids. 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I learned more than just dancing too. There's a difference between naughty and sexy. Belly dancing is somewhat sexy but bali dancing (different altogether) is naughty. I'm taking belly dancing...at least for now! LOLOkay you survived the novel, that makes you awesome and I do appreciate that you got this far. I do read the profiles of people that have viewed mine and respond to all messages - even if you just say hi or weird profile or nothing at all. I'm of the "days gone by school" that says a guy says hello first. I don't understand the male profile that asks the woman to contact them if they aren't willing to contact after they've viewed you. I raised boys and have met the kind of girls that contact first. I don't want to be one of them. Just one of my many strange quirks. It brings up the adage of the difference between the nice girl and the good girl........... Good luck fishing! I would enjoy going to the movies and I'd try not to spill popcorn on anyone. 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