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Jami, 45
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

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About Me

I Have met a few guys here, but I am a bit old fashioned and expect the Guy to be the one to cont. showing interest in me....especially once I have showed interest to them. I also expect the guy to be honest and tell me if he is not interested once we start talking. I dont think Anyone should have to guess....its ruid.If I could have things my way... I love the outdoors and Yes hard to believe, but I actually like "yard work"! I like my space and privacy. I'm not at all the insecure, needy and a whinny type of person and I dont want a guy to be that way either. I like to take things as they come.... pretty much the "friends first" thing. So, if things work out great and if not... then friends should be ok and no one should be mad if it doesnt work out. I like hanging out with my friends either going to the clubs, whole in the wall bars or just hanging out at the house. I really like being outside and doing just about anything.I like guys that are Attractive, Fit, Brown to Dark brown hair, Clean cut. 5 O'clock shadow ok, but not into the whole bushy mustache and beard thing. A clean cut goatee is also sexy. I like guys that are more the "shy quite type"...sorta like the "nerd" look but of course "Johnny Depp" will not be thrown out of bed for eating crackers, lol... I'm not into the guy that has to be the "life of the party".Mostly its about chemistry...if you feel that certain something for that person...than they become attractive to you and all :)I Don't need someone to have the same interest as me, cause I believe that its ok for him to do his thing if he wants and i will do mine and we can still do things together at other times.Basically I'm pretty easy going, not high maintence, but I do know what I want or don't want. Meet for Dinner, Lunch or Something Simple.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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