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Gale, 42
United States, Massachusetts, Haverhill

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About Me

Looking for an exceptional man! I am looking for my counter point or soulmate in the universe. I know it sounds corny but I truly believe the right man for me is out there. Someone who is like minded and fun. I believe he is looking for me as well. Are you him?; I have four children, two boys (both grown and gone) and two girls (11&6) who still live with me. I love my family and believe that family ties are very important. I believe that I am a pretty strong woman and have been through some trying times in my own life to get to this decision. I am a very open minded person on many things. I believe in the unvarnished truth, so if you truly don't want my opinion don't ask. I am loyal to a fault and will always stand up for what is right. I am unfortunately of the all or nothing mind set. When I make up my mind to do something then I go at it with full force, but when I see no need in effort I put none forth. I enjoy being around people socially; however, I do not need a lot of random people in my life to feel that it is complete. I am as comfortable dressed to the nines in a nice dress and heels (love them) as I am in cut offs, tank top and flip flops. I enjoy culture, but also enjoy just hanging out at a bon-fire. I love the sun and water. I also love cinema, books, horseback riding, quads, jet skis, hiking, camping, museums, traveling to places that I have never been to before and revisiting many places that I have been to. I like great conversation, am an avid believer in public display of affection (as long as it is appropriate and not lude). I am very much a girl but am not scared to get dirty either. I do not like bugs! LOL I am looking for someone who knows his own mind and is able to think out of the box. Someone who is capable of having an intelligent conversation for more than two minutes. Someone with goals and aspirations in his life. Someone who genuinely is looking for someone to have a relationship with. I am not into speed dating or flings. I want someone who will encourage me to be the best person I can be, as I will him. Someone with an optimistic outlook on life. I want to find someone who truly is looking to find happiness in his future. I want to find someone who is ok with me being me and him being himself as I have learned you can't change people and if you try you make yourself and them very miserable. I do not do drugs, nor am I looking for someone who does... and yes if you are a pill popper and they aren't required then you are. I don't drink excessively but I do drink socially. I am not a person who has to have alcohol in their lives daily. I am ok with a man who drinks socially but not excessively and knows when to say when. I am not looking for a man to raise (I have my own children). OK... it seems this could go on and I am sure that I have left lots out, so ... if you have a question and have taken the time to read this far... just ask and I will be happy to answer. Thanks for taking time to read. :D Something out of the box! How great is your imagination?I don't really think dinner in a noisy restraint is a good idea, and the movies (although I love movies) aren't really a great place to be able to talk and get to know someone. Perhaps coffee or dinner in a quite place... if everything goes well maybe a walk near a lake or on the beach where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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