SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Brandi
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Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 34-44
So about me........Basically I am a simple girl looking for a simple kind of guy. I am 37 years old and at this stage in life I am not looking for any kind of drama nor am I looking to play any type of games. I am not looking for a fling and do not sleep around (if your looking for a booty call please do not message me. I wont waste your time, please do not waste mine). I tend to rush into relationships and ALWAYS wear my heart on my sleeve. I guess that's where I go wrong. My new tactic this time around is to take things slow and enjoy life. I have a huge close family that sticks together. We may argue and fight but in the end we are always there for one another and that is what counts the most. I have learned this lesson the hard way loosing my father a year ago not on speaking terms. I never got to say goodbye to my father and tell him for the last time I truly did love him despite our differences. Lesson learned... life is too short to be unhappy and to fight with the ones that mean the most to you! I feel I have a lot to offer that special someone. I am loyal, trustworthy, faithful, honest and have a lot of love to give ( you can be the judge of that). I am not looking for anyone for their money (I have my own) and not their looks (I have dated gorgeous men). I have a good job, a beautiful 4 bedroom house in a good school district, therefore, I am already established. I do not like to be misled nor do I cheat and expect that in return. I am a mother of a wonderful 11 year old boy (his father lives far away so there are no complications, we have maintain a good friendship). I am not looking for someone to be his "daddy" however, he would have to take a liking to my son as much as he would like me. "My ideal mate" would take my son under his wing and show him the role he would have to play being a male and grow up to be a GOOD MAN. Take him to games, go outside and toss a football around to each other, take him fishing, coach any sport he wants to join...etc.What I am looking for in a relationship is basically to be happy....to fall in love and anticipate coming home after work to a loving family. Cook dinner while I help my son/kids (if you have children) do homework and wait for the love of my life to come home and greet him with a huge hug and kiss to show him how much I missed him through out the day. I want to have family time until its time for the children to go to bed then have adult time snuggling up conversing on how our day was. I want to take family vacations and travel. Go on weekend getaways with my husband (yes I would like to get married one day, never been). I want to have friends over and have cookouts.......Sunday football gatherings if that's what your into.....Christmas parties etc. What I am looking for in a man would simply have the same outlook on life as I. Same characteristics and dedication in taking care of his family and making us come first.You will see pictures of me above both thin and heavy. I lost myself in my last relationship and gained unwanted weight which I am now working on in loosing and gaining my self confidence back. Just to be clear I am still heavy trying to get back to what I looked like.So basically, I just want to be in love and happy. I know it seems far fetched in this day, but I know it can be done if both our minds and hearts are in it.By the way.....I am not perfect by no means, I do have my flaws, But hey are their any "Perfect" people out there?I do wish everyone luck in finding "The One"!
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Jackie
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Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 33-43
I'm single mother of 2 great teenagers, they are my life!! I enjoy hanging with my family and friends! I've been a waitress for 10 years and I love it! I enjoy bowling, dancing, football and just lounging around listening to music or watching movies! I don't know why I'm doing this, something new I guess!
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Latasha
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
ABOUT ME:I am an entrepreneur and highly skilled in the art of managing my life while working. I am a good blend of traditional and modern values, with strong emphasis on old school ethics. I play just as hard as I work, seeking new and familiar adventures. I am peaceful but energetic, somewhat outgoing, and rarely lacking for good conversation. Sarcasm is the spice of life, and I’m not easily offended, so bring it on!My perception of an ideal relationship is complete and utter comfort. We can be ourselves around each other without feeling judged. I only have eyes for you, you only have eyes for me and we communicate this verbally, physically and often. Down and dirty sex and warm and comforting cuddling are ever present. Fights are rare and when we do get into it, we don't stop talking until we've reached some sort of peace. Unparalleled companionship, unprecedented generosity and unconditional love grant us the foundation for a lasting long-term relationship.I've learned from past relationships that laughing is essential and perfection is impossible. It is better to be single than to be in a bad relationship and it is better to understand than to be understood. I have an idea what it is like to be a man in the world and I don't want to be another "job" for you.MY PERFECT MATCH:I love funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. I admire a man who has a great sense of purpose in his life. One who thinks and acts upon how he can improve his friendships, his community and his world.I appreciate the unusual man who is authentic. Who, by nature, would more readily admit his fears than try to cover them up.I find men who are financially responsible to be very sexy. A guy who saves money or invests to make and maintain family securities really turns me on.I respect a man who places importance in family and one who is actively raising his children with good manners and values.I desire a man who can live free from objectivity and is content to explore the beauty this world has to offer us. In short, if you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. But I will say that if you've got dreamy eyes and enjoy fishing, I'm already melting. Imagine feeling happiness in just simply being together, no matter where we may find ourselves. The warm sun smiling down on us as we stroll aimlessly through a park... The bustling noises of a quaint cafe as we talk over a cup of coffee... The laughter and inviting atmosphere of a diner or restaurant, sharing bites of each other’s meal... The possibilities are endless.