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Melba, 38

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Hi I am a southern girl who wants to live in the city and who likes having fun outside of my boring little small town. I love being a nanny. I like to explore my surroundings and to find new and exciting things to do, go to festivals and events. I like being independant and dont like to be treated like I'm someones posession or little baby. I dont need a guy to take care of me, I have a house, a car and a dog. So don't treat me like I'm helpless but I do appreciate kindness and helpfulness. I have been out of a relationship since July ***it was on and off again for two years that was just not meant to be. I was very much in love and a year and four months later after the breakup, Nov. 20th, ***he was killed in an auto accident tragically. I am very sad about that. Unfortunately for two more years I was put through mental games with the next guy. Anyway I am done with that. I am mature (when necessary! Ha!Ha!)But sometimes that can be boring. Let me put it to you this way. I can conform to my environment. I like the finer things in life and fine dineing. I am a foodie and love to try new restaurants and venues. But i would not characterize myself as high maintenance. I usually only shop when i have a reason to. I put my money more into experiences,concerts and doing outrageous things that make me feel young but not illegal stuff!I like all kinds of music, I adore 80's music!!C!! I can be friends with anyone but I am as upfront as I can be and too honest to a fault. I like soul ,Babyface, 50 cent, Bone Thugs all that too, Beach Music everything!! I am just and average looking girl next door. I struggle with my weight. Average one Summer or Spring then struggling with extra pounds the next. Not a high-maintanence babydoll with striking beautiful features.But what girl wouldn't like to be if they had the money! I can adapt to most any environment but if I forget my jewelry or lipstick I promise you that is not a big deal to me, I don't even wear it half the time. I would call myself predictable and scheduled and even conservative but not so conservative that I don't show a little skin or show off my tattoos...I have four. I am a clean, neat person but even when I am organized or try to be there is always some unorganized areas of chaos somewhere in my house and it drives me crazy.I am not looking to push anything on here too fast but I am a girl who is looking for a man who can see himself settling down, maybe getting married and having a family one day. I am an only child. I want a big family someday or a small one would be fine.I would prefer someone who is ready to start from the beginning like me I LOVE CHILDREN BUT I AM LOOKING FOR A MAN WITHOUT KIDS AND PREFERABLY NEVER BEEN MARRIED. LOOKING FOR GUYS UNDER 40.I don't like a jealous and insecure man. If I want to go somewhere alone I don't want somebody that doesn't trust me. Believe me if I like you Mr. America could walk by and I wouldn't notice. Even if I don't think its going to work out trust me I will tell you. I am interested in who I am with at the time but I don't expect you to think I am going to walk with my head down and not see whats in front of me or where I am going. I don't cheat.Even if it turns into nothing which I usually know within a few meetings of getting to know someone, I am just fine with having you as a good friend. I have many good guy friends who are like brother's I have never had. Some of which I wish I was attracted to because they are great people. I have made great friends and am a little more outgoing I never meet a stranger.I also talk too much!Can't you tell?And I need someone who will communicate.So if you can handle that send me a line! Well the sweetest thing a guy did was take me to a drive-in. But I like creativity. When I myself are entertaining a guest I research places to go. I like men who put some thought into dates. I want to stress that I dont want a black man.C and sound as country as a collard green, but I am by no means into cowboys or country boys. I don't like to hunt, fish or watch racing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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