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Lela, 36
United States, Mississippi, Biloxi

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I am a genuine person looking to meet a kind sincere guy to date or be friends with, this depends on my attraction and compatibility to a person. Realize that if I say friends, I mean the kind you had in grade six not the casual sex kind. Honesty is very important to me, if you lie at the start or try to be what you think I want *** yourself it’s a big no no with me. I am extremely caring but expect it in return. I have a strong personality when you get to know me and can be very blunt. I enjoy having long deep conversations about what’s important in people’s lives. Many of my friends come from different backgrounds and offer something different to my life. I do think opposites attract but you need things in common to keep it together. Trust is very important I have a high moral code and would never cheat, or be with someone who was already involved. It’s important that a man sees me as an equal. I will not date anyone who has cheated or thinks there are times its an excusable offense.I am thankful for the blessings in my life though I constantly strive to do and experience more. I have a job I love minus those days where things don't go right. I've spent a lot of time becoming educated in a few areas mainly science, I've learned a lot but mostly that I have much more to learn. I love experiencing new things people and cultures. I lived in Barbados and Africa for short periods of time and it made a big impact and changed my view of the world. I love to eat ethnic foods and hope you do to. If I have disposable money my first thought is travel, and while resorts are nice, I’d rather something more authentic. I bought a house here in the mac which has been a scary undertaking but one I 'am proud of. I like my finical independence, but want someone to make life special. I love having the sun and wind on my face, I am happy climbing a mountain or walking around town on a sunny day with a coffee and good conversation. I love being outside and I'm always up for road trips and getting out and about.I like to jog it would be great to have someone to go with me. I love quading for nice relaxing rides and stops for a good "boil up" but hate guys who need to prove they have the Y chromosome by doing tricks and extreme speed. I've gone "mudding" and its not my thing.I love game meat and am ok with hunting as long as you are ethical, don't take bad shots and eat what you kill.I am not a big drinker although I do enjoy a social drink, BBQ and good company and conversation .Education is important to me, my focuses have been; environmental, biology, earth science & secondary education. My dog is family, she sleeps in the bed, gets dirt in the car, and snores :). I like cats but have a deadly allergy :(I don't live by the clock and hate to set exact times to meet. While I want my house to be a home that is welcoming and comfortable, I am not meticulous and don’t want to be. I hate hockey and sports on TV and don't mind watching a game its a give and take thing and If the game always wins over me then it won't work.Iam a sucker for hard working clean cut country guys. I love a guy who can do work on a house, fish, camp (in a tent) but also have intelligent conversations about their thoughts and feelings. I 'am really good with money and know I need a guy who can handle his money as well. I know Its hard for guys to open up but , if we can't communicate about things that bother us and make changes and compromise a relationship is doomed. I love being out in nature and hope to find a guy I can enjoy the outside with. You must love dogs because mine is so important to me. Its a plus if you have your own dog.As far as music goes I like everything except classic rock and heavy metal. Its not a date, its an introduction

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro Reggae Cooking Play Musical Instrument Crime Fantasy Romance War
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