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Lela, 36

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About Me

I am a genuine person looking to meet a kind sincere guy to date or be friends with, this depends on my attraction and compatibility to a person. Realize that if I say friends, I mean the kind you had in grade six not the casual sex kind. Honesty is very important to me, if you lie at the start or try to be what you think I want *** yourself it’s a big no no with me. I am extremely caring but expect it in return. I have a strong personality when you get to know me and can be very blunt. I enjoy having long deep conversations about what’s important in people’s lives. Many of my friends come from different backgrounds and offer something different to my life. I do think opposites attract but you need things in common to keep it together. Trust is very important I have a high moral code and would never cheat, or be with someone who was already involved. It’s important that a man sees me as an equal. I will not date anyone who has cheated or thinks there are times its an excusable offense.I am thankful for the blessings in my life though I constantly strive to do and experience more. I have a job I love minus those days where things don't go right. I've spent a lot of time becoming educated in a few areas mainly science, I've learned a lot but mostly that I have much more to learn. I love experiencing new things people and cultures. I lived in Barbados and Africa for short periods of time and it made a big impact and changed my view of the world. I love to eat ethnic foods and hope you do to. If I have disposable money my first thought is travel, and while resorts are nice, I’d rather something more authentic. I bought a house here in the mac which has been a scary undertaking but one I 'am proud of. I like my finical independence, but want someone to make life special. I love having the sun and wind on my face, I am happy climbing a mountain or walking around town on a sunny day with a coffee and good conversation. I love being outside and I'm always up for road trips and getting out and about.I like to jog it would be great to have someone to go with me. I love quading for nice relaxing rides and stops for a good "boil up" but hate guys who need to prove they have the Y chromosome by doing tricks and extreme speed. I've gone "mudding" and its not my thing.I love game meat and am ok with hunting as long as you are ethical, don't take bad shots and eat what you kill.I am not a big drinker although I do enjoy a social drink, BBQ and good company and conversation .Education is important to me, my focuses have been; environmental, biology, earth science & secondary education. My dog is family, she sleeps in the bed, gets dirt in the car, and snores :). I like cats but have a deadly allergy :(I don't live by the clock and hate to set exact times to meet. While I want my house to be a home that is welcoming and comfortable, I am not meticulous and don’t want to be. I hate hockey and sports on TV and don't mind watching a game its a give and take thing and If the game always wins over me then it won't work.Iam a sucker for hard working clean cut country guys. I love a guy who can do work on a house, fish, camp (in a tent) but also have intelligent conversations about their thoughts and feelings. I 'am really good with money and know I need a guy who can handle his money as well. I know Its hard for guys to open up but , if we can't communicate about things that bother us and make changes and compromise a relationship is doomed. I love being out in nature and hope to find a guy I can enjoy the outside with. You must love dogs because mine is so important to me. Its a plus if you have your own dog.As far as music goes I like everything except classic rock and heavy metal. Its not a date, its an introduction

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I have decided to change this again. I am single mom with two wonderful daughters. They are my life and are what makes my world turn. I am in the process of changing alot of things in my life that change is to put God into our life more. So with all that being said I am not looking for a hook up or a fwb. I dont need either of those. If thats what your looking for then please do not bother with sending me a message. What I am looking for is that someone that will take in what comes along with my life. Not saying I want to run and get married cause by far is that what I want. Honesty and being faitful and true to yourself and me as well is good. I work a full time job and come home to a full time job of being that mother my girls need. Things I like doing is the beach or just being outside when its warm. To having friends and family over for dinner or to sit around a bon fire enjoying the time. Family is a big a thing to me they mean alot to me. I can say family doesnt always have to be blood to be my family. I am a very welcomening person will try to trust you with all my heart until there has been a reason not to. There is much more to be said but I will leave this as is for now. If there is anything more youd like to know ask me. Cant put it all up here then what would there be to talk about later. have a wondeful day!! A walk and dinner will make me happy. I don't need the fancy stuff for a perfect date.

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    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

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  • Marjorie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Lets get this out of the way at the very beginning so nobody is shocked later on,There are many different layers that comprise the whole of my personality. The one that gets me in the most trouble is the fact that I am ridiculously blunt. With that said, here is what I have learned while trying this online dating thing, really they are rather funny in my opinion: Sexual favors in a parking lot are expected if you buy me a beer (I kid you not this was actually suggested to me) A picture of me on the beach, in a bikini, is an offer of all kinds of interesting thing. Here I thought bikinis were appropriate attire for a day at the beach? Where did I go wrong? Lol There are so many more, but these two stand out the most in my mind. So if you are still reading and maybe even laughing, we might actually get along and I would love to hear from you? I have three amazing boys (17, 12, ***who are my life and keep me busy. I don't bring people in and out of their lives, so when you?re important enough to me, you will meet my children. Who am I? Well I am a contradiction. I am independent to a fault, blunt, and a bit too honest. I have a bad habit of saying what is on my mind, sometimes my timing sucks.I hate math, but have a degree in accounting. I cant spell to save my life, and I believe whoever invented spell check should win a gold medal. I am sarcastic most of the time and have a weird sense of humor. I can laugh at myself most of the time, but I don't have a problem laughing at you or with you. I would rather be hurt with the truth, than lied to for any reason. I believe honesty, integrity, a keen intellect, and a dirty mind are essential in all people. I am pretty straight forward and don't offend easily. I don't play games and I am pretty sure I have no idea what the "rules" to dating are these days (obviously), nor do I want to follow all the ridiculous "rules and guidelines" that are published online. Really who comes up with this stuff anyway? I am not desperate in anyway. I don't need a man to be happy or complete. Finding someone, who I enjoy spending time with socially and romantically, is an added bonus, but not essential to my happiness. I am not overly girly. I get along with men, have more in common with men, than I do most women. I have no problem playing in the dirt, but I can also pull off a killer dress and heels. I am a hopeless romantic and believe that love, when done right, can last a lifetime. Unfortunately, I don't have any proof to this theory. I am not looking for a one-night stand. Honestly, I am not sure what I am looking for, Maybe just to meet new people and if we click, I am open to possibilities. I won't limit my choices by picking a type of man because obviously my "usual type" hasn't worked out so well. I will be honest enough to say that physical attraction is a must, however it is not the only criteria. I have met a lot of men who were truly amazing to look at, until they opened their mouth. And I have met a lot of men who were cute, but not handsome, and their personality made them truly beautiful (can you call a man beautiful?) Call me greedy, but I want the whole thing, looks, personality, chemistry,..

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