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About Me

How do you not make this sound like a wanted ad lol..I enjoy all kinds of music but tends to lean towards rock and metal. Im a huge movie junkie from old black and white to recent from horror to comedy. I love to laugh and joke around and hope one day to meet that one who will be my lover and best friend, a man not a boy who can hold an intelligent conversation with me but will be ok being goofy as well. Im educated, feisty and Im not perfect..Im pretty much an open book so anything you want to know just ask : ) Im in no hurry to find him Im happy with my life and the way its going right now. A friend would be great if something happens and sparks fly then awesome if not and we remain friends thats ok as well..I know not everyone reads these profiles so to be honest Im not really gonna fill in everything Im in to, what I enjoy doing, yadda yadda because in all honesty people on here look at the pics first and decide from there if they wanna reach out or not including me however I try my best to not judge a book by the cover because the person Im looking for may pass me by..So, if you wanna get to know me cool : ) . Talk to me message me and I will be happy to discuss pretty much anything with you. Update: Just because I message you with a compliment DOESNT always mean I want to meet you. “If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. ... Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.”By Bob MarleyI, with a deeper ***, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naive or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.By: Anais NinI do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, f***kd, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.” Anaïs Nin

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Clara

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Love to go hiking, riding my watercraft .Love almost everything that pertains to the outdoors. I am very honest trust worthy.Also interested in military men as well

  • Avis

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I've never been married, nor do I have any children. Worked for the same company over 20 yrs now. Due to having 2 back surgeries, my Dr, took me out of work this past March. Love to take weekend trips to beach/mountains, also LUV NASCAR #99....... Hope everyone finds their special someone!! Whatever we both agree on.

  • Geneva

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    A simple girl with simple needs. Looking for my best friend. My last relationship ended over 2 years ago so I'm hoping to find someone who is really ready to share their life with me and allow me to share mine with them. Im far from perfect and always see life as a opportunity to improve but I am also very proud of who I am and the things I have accomplished. I'm looking for someone who actually likes children being that I have 3 at home. A understanding and love for animals is a must as well. I work with them and have a passion for caring for them! If you don't like them or cant handle being around them then please don't bother... I have no drama in my life and I prefer to keep it that way. So many men on here say they are looking for a good woman with good morals and qualities but then get upset because I'm not looking for a one night stand! Please be prepared to establish something with me before assuming we will be jumping into a sexual relationship! That said, once I've reached that point I'm a very sensual, sexual and affectionate person! I love romance and want the same in return!* Yes, I date black men and any other race if I find you attractive* I have a child who is young and her deadbeat dad is not around. I am NOT looking for someone to raise her or support her BUT she is my world and if you prefer to date someone without kids (young) then Im not for you!* I have dogs, Two of them. Both totally harmless. * I am 5'8. I do not care if you are 7ft or 5ft but PLEASE don't lie about it. Why do men lie about their height anyway??? Is that like weight for a woman...? * I work out about ***times a week. That means Im WORKING on my body. Not that I have the perfect one... far from it. However, my pics are accurate. Id REALLY appreciate it if yours were too.* I'm NOT looking for a penpal! If you are unable to communicate, meet up or live far too far away for us to even imagine establishing anything then I'm not for you! Im pretty easy and old fashioned in some senses. You lead, I'll follow. That doesnt mean I'll do anything.. just means I respect a man for what he is :)I dont expect you to lay your coat over a puddle of water but if you hold my hand and help me jump Im a happy camper. I think a first date needs to be in a place that we can converse and get to know one another... other than that, Im pretty easy to satisfy!

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