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Selma, 52
United States, California, Napa

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About Me

I enjoy life and all it has to offer. Friends are important. I am always in contact with my best friends and have had many of them for most of my life. My friends would say I am considerate and thoughtful. I love to be outdoors in the warmer months. On snowy days its nice to cuddle and watch a movie. When I was growing up, my mom would tell me that a good relationship is like a team... you should learn, grow, and work at it together, as soon as you don't you are not a team anymore and things won't work out. I have found out she was so right.I enjoy all types of music. Watching a live band or going to a concert is always fun.i am happy and positive, and tend to only see the good in a person. My daughter is 21 in college and now has her own life...I am proud of her and feel its now time for my life!It would be nice like to find someone that would enjoy doing things together... to be spontaneous. Someone I will find special and treat him that way as he would treat me the same. Have the highest respect for each other. A dream you dream alone is only a dream...a dream you dream together is reality.By the way...I'm not looking for a pen pal, I am looking for the real thingIf ain't is a frequently used word in your vocabulary you probably aren't for me.I look forward to hearing from you.T

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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