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Amelia
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I am just me. I love my kids. Work hard and play hard... Teach dance on the side. Love my regular job. Love traveling, dancing, ice skating, ice hockey, scuba diving, music, singing, drums, having fun! Up for anything... but I always pay for everything! Starting to wonder if there is a guy out there that can atleast pay for himself. LOL! I would like to be pampered for a change. :) I work really hard and smart and provide for my family... and obviously my dates... ugh.. LOL!Frustrating"
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Madeline
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
Would love to meet a mature, solid and confident person who still knows how to have fun and play. I like travel, cooking, photography , reading and uncontrollable laughter. I never get tired of learning and a good workout is my best hour of the day.I value good morals and character and am honest to my core. I am witty and sarcastic but know how to behave when necessary. My friends tell me I'm a free spirit and that I light up a room with my personality, I like being viewed that way. I have no fear of judgment except Gods judgement of me. I live my life at my personal best. I consider myself to be classy, sassy and some times a little bad ass. hahahaha....I can be a little chipper if I feel disrespected or not valued, I feel that I and anyone deserve that from another human. I tolerate nothing beneath that. I am as good as you treat me and that does come with patience and understanding.I am a very passionate person and love all kinds of new experiences and music... The dance floor is my second home. I have 3 older children and I have lifelong friends and very good ones. Lacking a best male friend that has the same compass that I do. I am not interested in getting married as soon as possible just meeting a great man because I still believe.I think men are amazing in many ways and that it takes a good women to feed and allow him the space to shine in his ways....and vice versa. If things progress than Its even better Not looking to be leaned on or have someone to lean on but *** partner that has my back and I have his in all circumstances. I still play like I am a kid, tired of all the bullies that spoil the fun, you be you and let me be me.I am all about communication, family and loyalty. My foundation and faith is strong I play and pray hard. I am where I am because I can't be broken at least not publically. lolI have to be brutally honest, arrogance is not the same as confident...Please be nice.Kinda wish guys would stop using this site for a cheap thrill and pointless conversation in the late hours .... If you don't have time to take a girl out and make things come to play... Be fair Intelligence shows in your comments, charming and enchanting overpower hi ... Just a little help... If it is painful to have a conversation, you are already in trouble with me. Hehe.I seriously just want that guy that even when I'm upset I totally could not see myself without him. The one I never get tired of kissing and can't wait to see at the end of everyday. A purpose in life and financial grounding is a must. It tells me your commitment to growth and stability and ability. If you cannot afford or take care of yourself then a woman will complicate your life. With that being said... pay your bills first then date.I am driven and for the most part focused...I am not perfect but perfectly imperfect. I love life on sunny days,the cold scares me :)If there is one thing that I find is a turn on it's a sharp dressed man with nice shoes, just a thing I notice.Must Clarify... hahahaha... Casual is good just like a guy that cleans up well! I dont live in flannel and sweatpants but yeah those nights are sweet!!!!! To be discussed... I am game for anything that is public and fun, nothing uncomfortable. I think it's easier to know someones true self when they are laughing and not overthinking.
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Virginia
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
At this point, just want to hang out and have some fun. If it becomes more, great, if not, no big deal. Just to be clear though,; I want to be in a real, committed, loving, long-term relationship but I understand, you must have chemistry and "date first" to see, if they're the right one before taking the next step into a relationship. I don't believe in using people or leading them on and don't want any man that would be willing to do that to me either. We are not children and honesty should be a given. I'm ready to enjoy life with someone and hopefully find that rare, special love, that everyone dreams about. I'm willing to give it my all, you must be too! Not here for FWB's....you can find that anywhere, nothing special about that. Please be upfront about your thoughts and/or feelings. I will respect you for it. Even if you tell me, "Thanks but you're not what I'm looking for in a relationship"....I will appreciate it. You just saved us both a lot of valuable time. I'm not snobbish or rude but I don't have time to reply to every message and when I did reply with a polite, "No thank you", I started receiving hate mail and men wanting to argue their point. FYI: If I wasn't interested before, I'm definitely not, after something crazy like that...I don't understand the concept of convincing someone you are right for them. I respond to those profiles or messages that capture my interest and ONLY I KNOW WHAT CATCHES MY ATTENTION. Of course, physical attraction is first but it requires a lot more to keep my attention. Looking for my own perfect combination...not perfection, because none of us are! Which includes; chemistry, looks, respectful, sense of humor, personality, morals/values, substance too. I prefer to keep a SMILE on my face and enjoy life! I am mostly a fun, loving, very social & outgoing, kind-hearted, sweet, strong, happy and down-to-earth woman with the intent to keep as much drama, away from my life, as possible. My life is not perfect and I've had my share of issues over the years so I worked very hard to cut out drama-filled people from my life. Don't get me wrong, I am very supportive of my loved ones and I know that in today's World, a lot of us have to deal with the Ex's concerning children, etc. I understand that but If you have continuous drama with Ex's/old girlfriends who are constantly calling and texting with all their issues or acting as if you're still together....Stop right here. I'm not the one for you. I raised my 3 children as a single parent; 2 are adults and out living their lives, and I have 1 teen son still at home. Also have 3 grandchildren. Yes, I'm a Grandma (still sounds odd but I love every minute of it, haha!). ***I can NOT have more children but have no issues being with a man who has children and treating them as my own. I love kids and family is extremely important to me. Family is always first! How a man interacts with his family is VERY important to me. My family is very close including parents, siblings, kids, cousins, etc. Although I have a big heart, I am not a pushover and have a very stubborn side too. I was raised as an Army Brat so I've experienced a lot of the world and I'm very adaptable in most situations and settings. You will probably never see my mean side but I assure you, it exists, lol! I'm definitely an outspoken and opinionated woman so if you prefer the quiet, soft type...we are probably not a good match.I spend most of my time working and with my family. My youngest is at the age, where it's not much fun to hang out with Mom anymore, so I find my free time has increased. When I have free time away, I'm out and about with my friends enjoying lots of things like; dining out, local hotspots, dancing, riding on the back of a Harley, live music, movies, shopping, shooting pool, museums, concerts, festivals, the parks, the lake or beaches in FL, etc. I love flowers, yard work (it's very relaxing and peaceful), hiking, bicycling, picnics, camping, cooking out, canoeing or even just sitting outside on the porch late at night watching the lightening bugs (aka fireflies, haha), Vacationing at the Beach, the lake, the pool...definitely a warm weather person and enjoy Spring thru Fall. Not much on Winter months, except for the Holidays with family and friends, but it is a great time to snuggle up :-) I am focusing on self-improvement and a healthier lifestyle. I'm making great progress, so far; getting ready to start back to College (again) to finish my degree, eliminating negative things/people out of my life, eating better, lost weight and working out..still some things to work on but I'm much happier now and I have my goals set on moving forward from here. I want someone who has some focus on improving their life too. Feel free to message and ask questions, only way to know if we might be a good match. Depends, very open on this, just treat me with respect, make me laugh and let's have a great time and get to know one another. Usually something short and sweet, like lunch, drinks, ice cream, etc. is a great way to start and then go from there. If no connection then we don't have to spend hours together but if we like one another, we can always extend the date or plan the next :)