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Velma, 41

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About Me

Hi there! Thanks for stopping by to read my profile. :)My background:German born and raised, moved to Australia at the age of 12 and then work brought me to the US 16 years ago. Married once, divorced once, no kids. I have a pretty demanding job in Oil and Gas, so when I'm not working, I like to relax and have fun with friends. I love the outdoors, hiking, camping, BBQs or just going for a walk. I like to work out and do so about 4 times a week, recently adding my less favorite activity of jogging to the mix. Fine dining is high up on my list, along with a good movie (at home or the theater). I also love to cook or read a good book while hanging out with my cats. Football (soccer for you American guys!) is one of my favorite sports to watch and I follow the German league to some degree. I love to travel and try to get home to Germany once a year; Australia only happens every few years. I love visiting new places and experiencing new cultures.What am I looking for? Someone I click with, so we can enjoy activities together. Finding true love would be nice, but that would need to develop. I am looking for someone who is serious, looking for a one-on-one relationship, is kind and most importantly HONEST. If you're funny, that would be a bonus! :***other critical factor is aggression, there should be none. I like peace and harmony and like most, I don't like drama.Anyhow, these things are all best discussed face to face. Hope to hear from you soon, if you like what you've read. Drink or coffee is probably best for the first encounter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Noreen

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for A STRONG CONNECTION in EVERY WAY... someone I can talk to, hike with or lay in bed with for hours. I want to miss you when you are gone and be excited to see u again! Deep down I am a hopeless romantic but no one would guess this about me nor would I have ever said this a year or two ago. I am the girl who can hold her own in almost any settting, fiercely independent and confident but with that said, I'd love to be swept away as unrealistic as that might sound. I know... :-) I am outgoing, been told that I am witty and have a love for adventure, nature and spending quality time with family and friends. I am fit and love being active outdoors (downhill x-country skiing, hiking, swimming, cycling etc) but I also love to curl up in my pajamas and watch movies and/or relax. I love to travel .. so many more places to see around the world. I am a happy person who enjoys to socialize, laugh, shop and hang out. People consider me to be a very attractive and smart woman who is dedicated to her work and family. I have a great career that I work hard and excel at. I have long dark hair, brown eyes and a thin/fit body.Family and Friends are important to me. I try to surround myself with those I care about or love. I focus on positive aspects rather than the negative. I gravitate to those with a positive attitude and outlook on life which is similar to myself. I believe you live a much healthier, happier and longer life if you avoid harping on negative things. :)Ideally, I am looking for a man to grow old with and who knows what he wants and goes after it and shares similar interests i.e., being active, travel etc... I am attracted to a confident and honest man who is fit and takes care of his body, well put together emotionally, physically and is financially stable. Intelligence, great conversation and someone who is outgoing. These are all extremely attractive qualities to me. I realize this may take time to find or develop so I look forward to meeting and getting to know new people and ultimately find that 'special' connection. Love, passion and friendship is a definite must but chemistry is also very important! I am also looking for someone who believes in a work life balance and verbally & physically expressive. I am a very affectionate person and love to cuddle and will often fall asleep on your chest when watching a movie.... a sign of comfort and happiness I LOVE the simple and little things in life... a morning or unexpected kiss, simple touch, holding hands, an unexpected note or act of kindness and attention. :-) I will do just about anything for you if you capture my heart in friendship or romance but it is catching me which can be the challenge but with that said... it's definitely possible as it's been known to happen! I am a straight shooter and not interested in games. Honesty is #1 in my books... I can handle just about anything providing I know what I am dealing with. I believe texting is a great & quick form of communication but the creation of the telephone was/is a wonderful thing after establishing a great connection in person. I believe you can't truly get to know someone through digital communication and that the human voice and touch is imperative to establish a real and deeper connection. I enjoy 'old school' dating but believe online dating is a great forum to meet people that I would otherwise never cross paths with. :-) I enjoy chatting on line initially to establish an 'online' connection but prefer to meet briefly in person to see if there is really one face to face. :-.... 2 Reasons not to contact me: 1. You are not comfortable having a long term relationship with a women who has children. I have 2 beautiful children who are very important and will always be part of my life. 2. You are not interested in or looking for a long term / serious relationship. BTW.... I look like my pictures. There will be no surprises as I hope there is none with you. :-) Please include photos with your message as it is only fair seeing that I have included many for you to see. NO picture likely means NO responseGood luck in your search. Dinner, coffee, desert or a hike... It gives us an opportunity to talk and get to know each other better and establish if there is a connection.

  • Brandy

    Online

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Ok.... this dating thing was easy 20+years ago. To bad I dont have that magic genie that I could fast forward past the awkward stuff. I am 40 where have the years gone I am sure as many of us on here that they have gone to work and raising kids and most probably a failed relationship or 2. I use to think being alone was the easy way haha the joke is on me. The realization that my kids just need me a little bit of the time and they have their own lifes now....and mom is mostly a pain. I am now thinking it might be nice to have someone thst wants and needs me. Someone who cares whenI have a great day or can tell when it was just one of those days. Someone who wants to hold my hand and snuggle on the couch and talk....... ok I think ihave rambled enough of there is anything you would like to know ask.... the only bad question is the one you do not ask. Drop your line and see what a great catch I can be:) Also I am a BBW so if that is not your cup of tea then lets not waste either of our time Have an awesome day! "A relationship is not just about finding a good partner.....It is also about being a good partner" Somewhere public and casual where there is a time frame just in case it is awkward then it won't seem so bad to leave!

  • Chris

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    10 things about me you should know: 1- i like to cook and love to bake but it’s always more fun with company 2- i like almost every genre of music and movies 3- is my favorite number 4- i like to explore and try new things. Well, as long as my feet are on the ground i like it 5- if "these are not the droids you’re looking for" means nothing to you, then I am not the girl you are looking for 6- I like to play games, of the board variety not the head variety 7- i know how to read and do, hopefully you do too 8- friends and family are very important to me 9- i like to travel ***i like the outdoors, as long it doesn't involve sleeping on the ground

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