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Juliette, 39
United States, California, Bell

Offline, last seen Sun, 22 Mar 2026 10:36:31

About Me

Few things can make us feel crazier than expecting something from someone who has nothing to give. Few things can frustrate us more than trying to make a person someone he or she isn't. We spend years negotiating with reality concerning particular people from our past or present..We may have spent years trying to get someone to love us in a certain way, when that person cannot or will not....So we let go ....that doesn't mean we can't love that person anymore. It means we feel the imense relief that comes when we stop denying reailty and begin accepting..We realease that person to be who he or she actually is.We dea1 with our own fee1ings and need to wa1k away. We 1earn to 1ove and care different1y in a way that takes rea1ity into account....We enter into a new rea1tionship on new terms...taking our needs into account....We stop 1etting what we are not getting from the other person contro1 us ..We then take responsibi1ity for our 1ife. Sometimes we get angry and fee1 hurt but we 1and in a p1ace of forgiveness.we set him or her free ,and we become set free of bondage.....This is the heart of detaching in 1ove.... "If I could be any part of you, I would be your tears. To be conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live in your cheeks, and die on your lips".

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Loretta

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm new to the on-line dating scene. Shopping on-line for a boyfriend just seems unnatural to me ... Dating is awkward enough to begin with so I'm not sure what I think of this yet but I'm trying to be open to it.I was hoping to meet people the old fashioned way - you know through work, friends, etc but all that's come of that is married men looking to cheat on their wives. I don't share...So if you're married move on to the next profile. I value honesty, integrity and monogamy.I'm independent, hard-working and passionate about everything I do. I am generous by nature and love to help others but don't take advantage of it. I love to laugh and I try to see the positive in everything. I enjoy spending time in nature and hanging out with my nieces. I love to travel and explore new places - particularly beaches....Something about the ocean, sand and sun - It's so relaxing and rejuvenating.I'm looking for someone who shares similar values and is honest, considerate and down-to-earth so if that sounds like you feel free to send me an *** with your search!

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  • Lea from Bell | Woman | 40 years old | Taurus
    Lea

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I AM ONLY INTERESTED IN DATING BLACK MEN !!!!! I AM A BIG WOMAN SO IF YOU ARE NOT INTO BIG WOMEN PLEASE MOVE ALONGI really do not have a clue what to put here because people can say anything and not mean a single bit of it. I honestly don't even know why I got back on this site because I never had any luck here before and no one seems to be able to tell the truth about what they really want. HOWEVER I am looking for something to occupy my time so why not see what is out there while I have nothing better to do and maybe just maybe I will get lucky and meet a decent honest man that dont judge and has a sense of humor. Favorites:Color-PinkFood-SeafoodMusic-John Legend (best voice ever) Radio station***.7TV Show- Jeffersons, The NannyI AM NOT LOOKING FOR A DAMN BOOTY CALL SO PLEASE DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME HERE IF THAT IS ALL YOU WANT !!!!! I only want to date men that are willing to treat me like a lady and actually take me out on a real date. Real date meaning picking me up at my house taking me out someplace besides your home and having a good time then taking me home and acting like a gentleman the whole time. I don't believe chivalry is dead I know some men where raised right! lol

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  • Lacey from Bell | Woman | 39 years old | Capricorn
    Lacey

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    PROFILE UPDATE: I feel I need to update a little and hope people get this. I WILL NOT sleep with you when/if we first meet! That's not why I am on here! I'm very active and like to excercise so if you don't take health anf fitness seriously I'm most likely wrong for you! I'm very laid back but I have found being on this site you need to be pretty blunt with people. Lots of people look at a pic and don't read the profile. I will I am a very honest fun loving person who is looking for the same! I like to let my inner child out a lot! I enjoy almost anything outdoors. I like flying kites as well as relaxing under the stars having good conversation. I'm looking for a serious relationship with someone who has honest, true and pure intentions. I don't play games so don't play them with me. If you are interested that's great if not just be honest and say so. I am a big girl I can handle it.I love being active and trying new things. I'm a country girl at heart who has southern values. I take my relationships very seriously, after all if you don't your not going to get anywhere.I'm a little old school when it comes to relationships. I am looking for someone who is down to earth, laid back but also likes to have fun. They say there is someone out there for everyone so we will see. I'm not in search of a HOOK UP or FWB!! If that's what you want good luck in your search but I'm not the one for you!!! I'm looking for a person who can be my best friend as well as my partner. I love to cook and I'm a clean person. What ever you want to know just ask! It's to hard to explain yourself, it's much easier to have a conversation with someone. I could tell you anything on here but, you never really know until you talk with the person. My idea of a great first date would consist of anything outdoors. It doesn't really matter what it is. I just think the outdoors are relaxing. I'm open for suggestions though.

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