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Sophie, 54

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About Me

Hi,Since I joined this site I've had to hide my profile on and off due to my fathers health. I am his primary caregiver, and he's almost died a few times so I've been more off than on!!!! I'm a good person, and I do not want to live my life without a wonderful partner. However, I will never settle for less than the right person, and am perfectly fine on my own. Guys, please only message me if you're telling your true age. I've told mine, and for the life of me cannot understand why so many of you lie about something that will eventually be found out. It is vain, silly and starting out with a lie! Don't you want to be completely honest right from the get-go? It lacks integrity, and integrity is the number one thing I expect in a man. I am the age I gave, and my pics are all very current. I look exactly like my pics . . . okay? I will only reply to those who have pics. I'm going to attempt to describe my complex self in simple terms if possible.Ok, hobbies; Natural horsemanship, horseback riding, reading, kayaking, traveling, painting, designing, making things, cooking, healing, helping people, going to junk and antique shops, hunting for treasure, deep conversation, being with great friends and anything outdoors in nature. I work with abused, and behaviorally challenged horses using the laws of the natural herd. Basically with horses I am the "; which does not mean I am that as a human being! I am fluent in horse, cat, some canine and will be working on human for the rest of this life, and probably the next! I should tell you that if you are big into motorcycles and are looking for someone to ride with you it won't be me. My work with horses is too important to risk injury on a bike. Also, if you have blatant (meaning purposely taken) pics of your naked chest I probably won't reply. For some odd reason it's a huge turn-off for me. TMI . . . LOL!My goal is to someday have my own non- I have been my elderly dads live-in caregiver for 5 years now which has hindered my progress a bit but has also given me a few precious years to be with him. My biggest goal however is to continue to know myself so that I can be the very best person I can be. Being a primary caregiver has been my main job, and it's is not an easy one! I'm hoping to meet someone that understands this.What makes me unique? I am a very multi-faceted person, and a walking contradiction. Example; I spend my days in horse dirt, yet I can be the most glamourous woman at a black tie affair wearing an evening gown that I designed, and made. I am very liberal in many of my beliefs, yet I don't judge what other people believe in. Judgement in general is something I do my very best to avoid. No one has the right to judge another. I am an intellectual in many ways, yet I will roll on the floor laughing like a silly kid. I'm 10.***yrs old, and 10 yrs old at the same time. I've had a fascinating life, and have done many things. I feel like I've lived ***lifetimes in just this one. Some find it hard to keep up with me psychologically, so if you're not sharp that way you'll be bored to tears!!!!! I am a very very deep thinker. I was blessed with the gift of "beauty" (so I'm told), but so what? I didn't get to pick out the body my soul was going to get carted around in, and neither did you. It was just a crap shoot, and none of us are perfect! We should honor the "vehicle", and try to keep it running well. I love funny people, and love to laugh . . . really hard! I find it very healing to laugh. Jealousy is an evil emotion, and if it's a prevelant one for you I suggest you click on by. Ok . . . I have totally bored myself! If you want to see why I'm "unique" you'll have to meet me!I love mostly all music if it's good. That does not include "rap" which to me is not music. I adore blues, flamenco, classic rock, opera, classical, folk, celtic . . . too much to list. I am not a "go to the movies" type. If there is an exceptional film out there then yes but I'm not fond of sitting in smelly theaters! My taste in literature is also diverse, and I am extremely well read. The "nook" will never happen in my life! I love everything about real books including the smell. I am an artist, therefore love good art. Most of my friends are either artists, musicians or horse people. I love fascinating people though from all walks. I love to help bring out the creativity in people. I like to inspire, and see people reach a higher level of themselves.I'm very spiritual in my own unique way, yet I would never judge others choices. I am not religious though, and would never belong to a "group" of any kind. I believe in the laws of love, and kindness. Be good to all living things, and never purposely hurt anybody or anything. All else is fair! Life is a gift given to each of us, and we all have the right to use it as we wish. If you think I wrote too much then you aren't really interested in knowing what's inside. I'm writing a profile the likes of which I wish others would write. I want to know who you are . . . get a feel of your spirit. This cuts out a ton of back, and forth *** luck, and love to everyone. Remember, we get the love we allow."Love the earth and sun and animals, Despise riches, give alms to everyone that asks, Stand up for the stupid and crazy, Devote your income and labor to others... And your very flesh shall be a great poem." ~ Walt WhitmanImportant small print: (really...read it) WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.Any person and/or ***/or Agent and/or Agency of any governmental structure including but not limited to the United States Federal Government also using or monitoring/using this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos, and/or the comments made about my photos or any other "picture" art posted on my profile. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action against me with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee, agent, student or any personnel under your direction or control the contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, and the violation of my personal pr A first date is different from a first meeting. For a first meeting I like to meet someone in a public place for either coffee or a drink, and see if we have that magic thing called "chemistry". If we do, the nature of our first date will be a creative adventure!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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