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About Me

Hello, I enjoy reading,writing,cooking and occassionally riding my Motorcycle. I am very compassionate,yet assertive and competitive. I travel frequently and I am outgoing.I have accomplished most of what I have wanted to do in life at a considerably young age.I am single because I have high expectations. I have high expectations because I am worthy.I have worked hard to be where I am in life. However, that dedication has left me with no one to share my life with.I am so unique that one would have to get to know me fully to appreciate just how much so. I very much enjoy country music but also classic rock. Having said that, I am a classical music lover at heart. The sound of classical guitar and steel guitar makes my heart sing! Though I am looking for a relationship, I would like to take it slow. Would prefer not to make big mistakes.If you are a serial dater, I am not interested.I want someone kind,gentle and compassionate;someone self sufficient,as am I. Good looks are a bonus but not a prerequisite. I am an attractive woman as I am very confident.If you feel we may be compatible, by all means,send me a message. at the very least I will be polite and reply.Don't believe in beating around the bush. My life is too busy to waste time. I would appreciate the same respect. Thankyou Dinner would be nice, if I feel comfortable enough with that. Not one to run out to coffee shops(don't even drink coffee) so awkward!!! Maybe something short and quiet to begin with. Depends on the person and the level of trust.I am willing to compromise on the other persons comfort zone.If a second date should occur it,of course,would be different.I enjoy the quiet life with my significant other but I can relax and cut loose when warranted.Lets just say I am indecisive on that at the moment because it is a mute point.No, I am far from boring but I am cautious. With my enormous heart,I have much to lose. Prefer to save all my love for that special someone. Makes sense to me.If it doesn't make sense to you,why bother to waste my time or Yours?????

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jobaby

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-40

    Hi! My name is Jobaby. I am widowed other african woman without kids from Norcross, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Charlotte

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Online dating. It is such an unnatural way to meet people. You look at the pictures, and if they pass muster, you look at the content of the profile (if there is any)....and then you decide if you have the mental energy to send an *** I will tell you a little about me,and perhaps you will be swayed. I have put up the best pictures I could find......I am regularly reminded, as I meet people throughout the course of my workdays, that my life is pretty good. I am fortunate to live in a country where there is so much opportunity. I am in good health and well educated with a career that I enjoy. My three wonderful kids are doing well. But something is missing, and I have been looking for it for a little while now.My married friends sometimes live vicariously through me (I can tell some entertaining stories...) but they do not necessarily realize that the grass is not always greener over here. It is just different. While I enjoy the time spent with friends and family, it would be lovely to wrap myself around something (someone) other than that extra pillow at bedtime; to share the end of my day (and my days) with someone who is interesting and interested in hearing about it; to travel someone that I love. The man that I seek is intelligent and kind. He is a generally happy soul who is active and takes care of himself physically, mentally and emotionally. His actions and his words match. He knows how to flirt (because flirting is great fun) and has the power to make me laugh. He has the capacity to love with an open heart. He would rather be doing things than watching others do them. As for me, I can hold my own in conversation, so long it has nothing to do with sports teams. I can drive a stick shift, clean out the sink drain (not using Draino, but by taking it apart) and last year learned how to use a mitre saw despite my fear of power tools that have the potential for loss of digits. I do not need to be rescued. I have a decent sense of adventure, but every few years I forget that I have a fear of heights and do something crazy (for me) like parasailing. I go kayaking regularly in summer, have reacquainted myself with downhill skiing and I horseback ride. I am an avid reader, as I believe that lifelong learning is important for personal growth. I am kind and have been described as really nice (such a lackluster word). I was told that I was funny and at times have an obtuse sense of humor (I had to look that up to see if it was as uncomplimentary as it sounded). I appear shy until you get to know me....then not so much. I am affectionate and have no issues with PDAs. There is so much more to me (and to you as well) than what can be presented here.......we will have just have to talk about it....... whatever we decide......so long as we can get to know each other

  • Juanita

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    NEW RULE:...If you CANNOT PROVIDE ME w a *** view, DO NOT CONTACT ME........PLEASE BE AWARE I AM A SMOKER!!!...It seems a lot of u are not registering that....And do not send me pix of ur penis...seriously. Grow up!And one more query: what's this about "prefer not to say" re: having a car? Are u afraid someone will slash ur tires? Repo it? Car jack you?....what the hell is the secrecy?.....And your shiny bikes and fancy cars do not impress me. Ya got wheels to move you, that's fine. I'm not into mid- life toys to show off... We're not supposed to talk too much about ourselves, but I have, because this is what u get: Everythings up front and on the table:Currently splitting time between NYC and Hunter Mtn...EXTREMELY isolated when in the mountains and would love some company for a movie and a smoke....Very petite (under 5', I'm 4'8"), somewhat kooky, tattooed, totally unbalanced Libra with irreverent sense of humor and potty mouth, looking for a laid back, ***friendly, geeky, somewhat silly friend to hang w/ on quiet, dull boring nites/ weekends. I am an ecdysiast, mistress of mini millinery, producer, stage manager, costumer. Any creative types welcomed! stimulating conversation, horror, cult and bad B movies with a ***friendly friend is a perfect visit! An excursion to the beach or a burlesque show would be great. I am mostly a nightowl and most alert and productive during late hours. Please be ***friendly .............I'm a VERY young early '50's who is going on 20, my circle of friends runs from 20's to 60's. People tend to forget my age. I'm tiny, bouncy and bubbly, with serious moments, but mostly quite silly.I became an ecdysiast quite late, but am enjoying every minute. I have lectured on it and am now producing my own shows. I love the glamour, the creativeness and the ever broadening spectrum of the zeitgeist and hope to continue to produce for many years to come.I love camping! I love to paint, t-shirts mostly, but the hat biz and burlesque takes most of my time these days. I also love gardening but have been sans-garden for a number of years. In my biz u have to have a broad range of music loves. I have a huge vinyl record collection that I refuse to part with...over ***!I would loooove someone to hang with in off hours...just to put feet up with, smoke a bit and laugh, and if it seems to go somewhere, thats fine too. I am between apartments right now and would adore a diversion.I hope someday to have a small house w a garden, a place for friends to crash and space to create.I think I'm unique for my age as I am very young at heart, look young, can get along w practically anyone, am overly generous, have young interests and pretty adaptable to most situations.Please be 420.......)I'll always play devil's advocate, even if I agree w/ u, because I'm a Libra and must explore both sides.I really dont see gender in people anymore, I just see a person, and surround myself w/ all types of creators. I hope u feel the same as these are my "family".I don't drive, never have, being a city girl.!!!!!Once again...I must stress this: I am a smoker, please do not respond if it is in any way an issue!!!!!Please...if ur 420, please be upfront right away....Hope to meet u, whoever u are and looking forward to some nice times! Hang out, smoke a doob and have great convo. Park, beach, burlesque show or a bad rental movie for atmosphere. No pressure.

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