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Ermelinda, 46

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About Me

I am fun, flirty, confident, sexy, responsible, sarcastic, down to earth, kind, cultured, creative, out going, compassionate, silly, adventurous, introspective, passionate, honest and unique. I have traveled the world and my favorite thing to do is to get out of my comfort zone and experience new cultures and see exotic animals in the wild. BUT I also believe with the right attitude you can have an adventure in your own backyard. I love getting dressed up, going out for a nice dinner and some wine and having a great and fun conversation about anything and everything. But I also love going out to a local dive and listening to some great music. I am looking for someone with high energy and drive. Someone that is a confident, decisive take charge kind of guy. Someone that will spoil me and let me spoil him in return. Lets be GOOD to each other. Please don't ask me to change who I am for you and I promise not to do the same. However I am great at compromising and believe that is one of the keys to a good relationship. Someone that knows his own mind but will listen to my opinion and even have a fun and spirited debate that he doesn't take too seriously or get defensive. Also respect is BIG ...I am in good shape so please be as well. You don't have to be a body builder, not at all, but I'm sorry I am just not attracted to men that have more than a couple extra pounds on them. I like when a guy takes charge.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Margherita

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am down to earth, spend most of my time with my kids, love life and enjoy doing most every thing, love to fish, go to movies, rodeos, ride horses, read, walks in the rain, just about any thing in the outdoors during summer, I hibernate in the winter, love to snuggle under the blankets, hate being cold, have 4 kids, 3 are married, giving me 8 grand kids, have 1 still living at home my baby is 15, I am down to earth, independent, hard working, dependable, honest, easy going, just your happy go lucky person. I say what I think and feel which gets me in trouble some times but I am me, want to start traveling this year if possible, have horses, dog, & cow. Raise my own beef. Would love to find that special someone to spend life's great adventures with, talk, laugh and cry with. get a drink pepsi or coffee, go to dinner, sit and watch a movie ( I have tons) or just take a walk and talk see where it leads

  • Bennie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a very loveing, loyal, and giving person. I like to take walks, go to the movies i love to cook for the person that i have in my life, im also very old fashioned and love to take care of the person that im involved with. My passion is singing, i love to sing, going to karaoke. I use to sing with bands in my younger years and would love to continue where i left off. I have my own style and im very unique because im always me no matter what. What would i do on my first date hmmmmmm! Well i would definately got dressed to impress. I like to always look nice and take care of myself. I would like to maybe go to a nice restaurant then maybe either a movie or even a nice long walk holding hands. Maybe cuddling up just looking out into the river, beach or where ever we maybe, or maybe a nice quiet place where we could just talk to one another.

  • Rolande

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Nothing fake with me...what makes me unique (my opinion) is that I am very open and don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I'm seriously a no-drama, low-maintenance gal. I don't have any regrets in the choices I've made in life because I choose to learn from the choices that didn't turn out the way I planned; this helps me grow as a person. I've been divorced since April ***from the man I was with for 26-years. We matured as different people and grew apart. We both had a difficult time admitting that we needed to move on, but realized that we weren't "in love" and it wasn't fair to either of us to deny ourselves the chance to be with someone who we couldn't live without. He found his soul mate and is now married, and I couldn't be happier for both of them. We share custody of our 14yr-old son who is truly a great young man that makes me proud every day. I would expect that the man who is in my life treats my son with respect. I don't expect or require him to love him as his own, and I don't need a man to raise him...his father is very involved with raising him.Do I know what I want out of a relationship? I know that I want to feel special and want the person I'm with to appreciate the way I make him feel. I don't want anyone to change who they are or what they like, that's not realistic or a character that is sustainable in a relationship. With that said, I don't want someone who isn't interested in being financially independent or who chooses not to earn a living. I'm a person who sets goals and makes all efforts to achieve them, and I expect the same from the man in my life.Romance to me has a broad definition in my book. Here is how I describe it: someone who likes to surprise me with little things to let me know he's thinking about me. I'm not talking about monetary things like flowers or jewelry (although those are nice perks), I'm referring to things like a random text ("Hi there beautiful, I miss you."), an *** call out of the blue, a greeting card in the mail, or coming home to him in my kitchen making dinner for 2. I love making memories with family and friends and cherish the experiences I've been a part of. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. I have a sarcastic, witty nature that my friends tell me is a positive attribute of mine. One of my biggest turn ons is a man who can carry on an intelligent conversation with me and can flirt and tease with me as often as I do. Cuddling is a must! And in time, whenever we would decide it was right (be it the 2nd date or months later), sexual intimacy has to be an important part of the relationship!! Turn ONs: great sense of humor, respectful of self and others, hard worker but must be able to play even harder, romantic (per my definition from above), enjoys alone time with me but also likes hanging with me and his/my friends, an independent thinker and respectful that I am one also, enjoys a GOOD beer, is OK with having a glass of wine with me even if it's not his favorite drink, a great smelling man!Turn OFFs: drama, old baggage, *** needs of others, uncleanliness, smoking/tobacco use, disrespect of any extension of me (my son, my home, my friends).Enough about me for now, contact me if you'd like to find out more.

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