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Rolande, 46
United States, New Hampshire, Barrington

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Nothing fake with me...what makes me unique (my opinion) is that I am very open and don't pretend to be someone I'm not. I'm seriously a no-drama, low-maintenance gal. I don't have any regrets in the choices I've made in life because I choose to learn from the choices that didn't turn out the way I planned; this helps me grow as a person. I've been divorced since April ***from the man I was with for 26-years. We matured as different people and grew apart. We both had a difficult time admitting that we needed to move on, but realized that we weren't "in love" and it wasn't fair to either of us to deny ourselves the chance to be with someone who we couldn't live without. He found his soul mate and is now married, and I couldn't be happier for both of them. We share custody of our 14yr-old son who is truly a great young man that makes me proud every day. I would expect that the man who is in my life treats my son with respect. I don't expect or require him to love him as his own, and I don't need a man to raise him...his father is very involved with raising him.Do I know what I want out of a relationship? I know that I want to feel special and want the person I'm with to appreciate the way I make him feel. I don't want anyone to change who they are or what they like, that's not realistic or a character that is sustainable in a relationship. With that said, I don't want someone who isn't interested in being financially independent or who chooses not to earn a living. I'm a person who sets goals and makes all efforts to achieve them, and I expect the same from the man in my life.Romance to me has a broad definition in my book. Here is how I describe it: someone who likes to surprise me with little things to let me know he's thinking about me. I'm not talking about monetary things like flowers or jewelry (although those are nice perks), I'm referring to things like a random text ("Hi there beautiful, I miss you."), an *** call out of the blue, a greeting card in the mail, or coming home to him in my kitchen making dinner for 2. I love making memories with family and friends and cherish the experiences I've been a part of. I love to laugh and to make others laugh. I have a sarcastic, witty nature that my friends tell me is a positive attribute of mine. One of my biggest turn ons is a man who can carry on an intelligent conversation with me and can flirt and tease with me as often as I do. Cuddling is a must! And in time, whenever we would decide it was right (be it the 2nd date or months later), sexual intimacy has to be an important part of the relationship!! Turn ONs: great sense of humor, respectful of self and others, hard worker but must be able to play even harder, romantic (per my definition from above), enjoys alone time with me but also likes hanging with me and his/my friends, an independent thinker and respectful that I am one also, enjoys a GOOD beer, is OK with having a glass of wine with me even if it's not his favorite drink, a great smelling man!Turn OFFs: drama, old baggage, *** needs of others, uncleanliness, smoking/tobacco use, disrespect of any extension of me (my son, my home, my friends).Enough about me for now, contact me if you'd like to find out more.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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