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Mellie, 45

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About Me

I'm a full-figured blue eyed blonde who is full of life, loves to have a good time. But enjoys the quiet times too. Ever since my husband passed away, I have learned to value my friends and family. My 5 yr old son is the love of my life.A new found love, is working out at the gym. It helps me to focus and an easy way to take out my frustrations of everyday life.Iam looking for something I've never had before. I want someone to sweep me off my feet for once. Call it old fashioned or whatever you want. But I believe in romance. I want to know what it feels like to be wined and dined. I have a big heart and Iam a giver. I don't like games nor do i play them. If you do, I'm not interested.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Rebeca

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    This Site makes me LAUGH...very Entertaining.. hehe... Stay Away Catfish!!! and sorry.. But if you can't afford to take me out to a nice place.. Than I am not interested.. I am not in high school anymore!! Lolbtw... Lots of times ...it looks like I am online.. But am not.. I just forget to log out of the app on my phone.. And Yes.. I love to run every morning.... At around 6am.... before i go to work.. If i can't get to the gym...starts my day with an endorphin rush!!! .... ( ;All of my photos are current... Hope yours are too.. Honesty is our best policy.. If you meet me.. U will meet what you see.. It's called WYSIWUG...!Don't be afraid to try something NEW ... because life gets Boring when you stay within the Limits of what you already know...is not Right... In the end.. It's not the years in your life that count... But the life in your years.. (. ;I am looking for a Real relationship... not settling for Bullshit... ( ;... I have no problem being happy and single without a man...But, it would be nice to meet...... My Guy....someone who actually has their act together.. And knows what they Want...No Drama!! HEALTHY... HAPPY..MIND, .. BODY.. and Spirit..... I love to try new things and meet new people.... I like my manis and pedis.. But also don't mind getting my hands dirty in the garden or getting sweaty at the gym. I have been busy getting my life back on track... post divorce... ( ; .... Never an easy task.. But soo worth it to take the risk and get out of an unhappy situation....I like to be Romanced.... And I don't care how much $$$ you have...that in itself could never buy me... I care more about how You & I, treat each other (honesty and respect) ..There has to be a physical Attraction First.. Naturally witty.. Fun personality too... ( ; ... Of course.. Have GREAT Respect for a career minded hard working Man..I am a SWF looking for a Handsome Classy SWM...I am attracted to a MAN that takes care of himself physically .. Like I do.....That is down to earth.. Yet Cultured, Educated & Fun.. that definitely has a sense of Style.. I like a lil Preppy & Sporty...That is several inches Taller than I... That can Enhance my Life.. Not take over it... Must be Grounded, Affectionate, Confident and Secure....That Values Family...I tend to be attracted to tall men .. 5'11" to 6'5... Must be in good shape..... Weather permitting or take high intense cardio spin cycling classes... soo.. I like to be with someone who has similar healthy habits... I am very energetic and happy... It's those endorphins!!!! ..... ( ;Love being on the water... if you are into boating or diving... that's a plus....... I have lots of friends over at Fire Island..... I like to dress up and go out on the town.. but I am also the the type of girl that would be the first one to dive into the water and go clamming and diving in the bay or ocean...I have two children ... 9 and 13... A girl and a boy.... Love them...... I own my home..Sorry.. Not into motorcycling and all those tats...too dangerous.. I would rather take my chances and die powerboating!! LolI think I wrote enough.. Any questions? Ask... Lol \%/ \%***; & Appys.... at an Awesome place.. that's not too loud or bright, where we can Conversate!.... I love my sushi bars

  • Sammie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! I have decided at this point to write nothing but facts about me. If you are interested in talking, please *** am honest (to a fault at times)I tend to only date white men, just wish they LOVED MY CURVES like black men do!I am very caring & givingI smoke and doubt I will quit anytime soonI love to cuddle, hold hands and romanceI will NOT RESPOND if you have DEAD ANIMALS in any of your pics-not a fan of shirtless pics either, especially lying in bed..cheesy....I am a pescatarian (only eat fish)-no land animals..I am a curvy woman, so if you like thin, athletic girls, model-type....PLEASE MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!I enjoy drinking red wineI know how to text AND talk on the phone.I only date within a 15 or so mile radius....I cannot afford otherwise and want someone who lives nearby, not an hour away.I usually am not attracted to thin men, I like a man with some meat on his bones. :)I love to spend time with my son, friends and family-they are the world to me.I am looking for one person to be with and not into games at all! I do not bring drama with me.I love a man with facial hair, just not into the clean shaven look at all!**If I do not respond to your ***, I am sorry, that means that I am not interested.** I think coffee or the Waffle House....somewhere we can get to know one another.

  • Davida

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a fun, free spirited individual who knows what I want and what I don't. I am honest, nearly to a fault. Part of that honesty is letting you know that I am looking for someone who believes in God, themselves and the power of love. I know that kinda sounds like a song lyric! LOL! I love my little dog and spending time with him outdoors. I love my state and have traveled it extensively. I enjoy reading, often more than one book at a time. love good food, laughs and spending time with friends. I am beyond the drama in my life and don't care to deal with any in my relationships. I think chemistry is important, but might be willing to see if it develops...(not because I am willing to settle, I'm not, but because settling for mostly chemistry or all chemistry generally leads to short lived & less meaningful relationships). I am financially, spiritually & emotionally secure and looking for the same in a man. A work ethic is important to me in a mate, but you need to know that doesn't mean being a workaholic. Do you have a job or a career? If you don't enjoy your work, do you have good coping skills that allow you to have balance in other areas of your life? If life is enjoyable, you might be who I am looking for.For those scared off by my widow status, here's some reasons not to be. It's been a little over a year and a half;; I am not trying to replace him or compare; I am only human and miss the stability, companionship, fun and friendship that being in a committed relationship brings! I enjoy many activities and appreciate effort (and it doesn't have to be extraordinary or expensive!). It should include the atmosphere & time to chat and get to know each other. Coffee or ice cream is always yummy! Fun...is obviously fun!

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