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Ainsley, 52

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About Me

Hmmm...describe me... It's probably best if I state what my friends say about me which is sometimes very different from how I would describe myself. So, they say that I'm funny, honest, passionate, smart, fearful, a bit walled off at times, very creative, hard-working, a nerd, intuitive, extremely strong, very helpful, attractive, athletic, analytical, ...Yikes! That's plenty. I obviously have some REALLY GREAT friends. Oh, and I asked my mom to describe me, and she said, ..."well, you're just perfect"... That's probably where I get my sense of humor, and definitely my capacity to love on such a deep level. I moved to CA with the man that I am now divorcing (we separated over three years ago). Divorce-- The marriage was supposed to be 'until death do us part.' I couldn't exactly kill him--that would be immoral. But I refuse to share MY man with other women, so it had to end. I guess I'm selfish that way.I must say, I strongly value honesty. Although I CAN read minds, it's just easier if I don't have to waste my superpowers on someone whose intent is to deceive me. I guess maybe I should be honest then. I don't really have superpowers; hence, no mindreading skills. I do have a bit of women's intuition though, and I pray for clarity on a regular basis. The truth comes out eventually, why not just start with it?I'm told that I'm easy to talk to and actually quite down to earth. I'm somewhat of a homebody, but after 15 years of marriage, I'm finding that I love to get out and socialize on a regular basis. I have a fondness for the dancefloor. I like R&B, rock, and old school music to dance to, but when I'm just listening, I'm country all the way. My favorite hobby is to crochet, but I also love home improvement. There's nothing sexier than a man that can build and fix things. And I definitely want to be right in there helping to get things done.This seems so 'all about me' and one-sided. I think I'd rather have a two way discovery process. Fabulous chemistry is mandatory for that deep connection that I'm looking for. I know there's a man out there that is my everything. I'm ready to find you. I'm a bit old fashioned, so I'll let you decide that one.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kathline

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Obviously if something is going to develope it starts out with a first date and grows from there. I believe in relationships and hope to find that "forever" person that I can trust and give my love to. I know he's out there somewhere. I believe in give and take, compromise and knowing this sounds cliche, being each others best friend. The one we count on, turn to for comfort, having the safe place to fall and can make each other laugh. My humour is a little sarcastic but nice and all in fun. I can be very spontanious. Want to get in the car and just drive and see where we end up??? If you like hot, sunny beaches so much the better. I enjoy being out but also enjoy the quiet times at home. I am always open to learning or trying something new (well, not bungy jumping, I draw the line there, lol)There is so much more but don't want to give all away or there is no excitement about learning about the other person. I believe great relationships work both ways. Treat someone well and it will be returned and what a great way to live life. I am very non-materialistic and would rather live in a one room cabin with someone I love than to have "things". I can dress up or down and am comfortable either way. There is no point in being dishonest because if we meet then .....I look forward to having a partner, lover, friend.I've had a couple of "meetings" now and have been told I look better in person which makes me a little uncomfortable to say but I promise the pictures are current lol. ***\\***Plz***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone***\\***Who Died***\***Of***\\\***Cancer***\\\ Surprise me!!! What would you like to do? Coffee, walk, beach, pub. some place to talk and start to know each other.

  • Arlene

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    i'm just a good ol country girl. I like dancing and people watching. i like to just hang out and getting to know people. i just moved back to my home town to help my mom. I like country music and most other music. i would like to go some where so we could talk and maybe dance. not any place that is to loud. Have a drink and get to know you.I'm looking for some one to have fun

  • Chita

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    Woman. 54 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 51-61

    Spunky and Sweet thats what my friends call me,.. I walk tall and most often have a smile on my face.This life has been good to me I have two lovely grown children that are busy making their own dreams come true.Doing the things they love.They both live in Califorina.I love to travel and have visited many countries and want to explore many more hopefully with someone special.Going down the back roads and doing what the natives do and eating the local fare is the way I like it best.I live on a ranch at the ocean and love bringing the two together..It seems so pure.The outdoors is where Im most at peace and If I have a bad day a walk on the beach with my dog cures everything. Mother nature is my best friend. I enjoy dancing and listening to all types of music.I'm looking for a partner to walk(or dance) along beside me going in the same direction at the same speed , With the same goals.And have a blast along the way.Tall and strong, Active with lots of energy. Better be eating your wheaties.Must love dogs.. A house is not a home without one.I'm sure you've had a wonderful first love, and many in between I'd like to be your last.My best days are filled with coffee,a hike, family ,good food and wine.travel, and good company.All of this Id like to share with my best friend.Lover, Man of my dreams ,Soulmate. maybe you.I meet and know lots of men, And many are my friends,,, I just need to meet my forever man.best of luck to fulfill your dreams ....lady lassy a girl can dream..With Mr. Right starting the kiss's at my finger tips and working up..Or local beer and a turkey burger will do with the right person ;). I like huggs to.!If that first date has made me smile and think. I'll send YOU flowers...

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