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- in every facet possible. I do a little of everything imaginable. I try to learn everything I can. There's a long list of things I'd like-to/will do, but I'm happy with what I'm currently doing. That's pretty vague - so here's the more-descript version: Im musical, I'm a techie, I'm a dork, I'm a social flutterby, I'm a nature-lover/adventurer, I'm overly-creative...I love life and find beauty and fun in everything. What I Do I have lived a very colorful life - a very full life. I'm trying to settle it down a bit and enjoy a slower pace with my little mini-me. She's awesome - and I'm not saying that simply because I'm biased. "Little A" has come through more in her 1 year of life than most face in their entirety.-mom; dad is not around. There is not really any drama there & little one is with me 100% of the time. I do it all on my own and I feel completely spoiled that I get this little amazing person all to myself. I'm stable, I have a very awesome job. I'm blessed that my mom can watch A while I work...and I wish I could get paid as much as I do to work part time so I could have more time with her. I'm fascinated with how quick she's growing already and watching her learn. She's hella-smart and a complete little sponge! So obviously, if you want to get to know me, you must be kid-friendly. Otherwise, For non-working time, I love being outside...as does the munckin...in the fall, we both (yes her included) LOVE football RAWR!! Basically, any random adventures. I volunteer locally for charity events - usually playing music - usually military/service-related events. Because of little one's "adventures", we also do a few things for Children's or anything heart-related. I also donate all of my old phones to women's/homeless charities. I'd like to start a musical group that plays on occasion at retirement homes....old 40's music. Something to make them smile. Skillz, I has them! I conquer anything I put my mind to. Seriously. I can learn any ***; I can pick up languages; I've spent the past 2 years learning networking stuff (which is what I do for work now); I can dance, sing, paint, draw, build-things, work out complex problems, mediate social problems between friends (or co-workers), pick a killer fantasy football team - and do it all in high heels and backwards. (More points if you get that reference) I'd say I'm pretty awesome at being "me". Movies: I own about ***dvds and could easily add more...I enjoy most genres.- Mindy Project, New Girl, &-9.....oh yeah, and FOOTBALL! Music: I love all music, but generally, my radio is on classical in the car - or country. I sing & play a mix of blues/indie/folk. LOVE bluegrass. Food: I'm a foodie. I love all foods (aside from fast-food which doesn't count as real food). I try to eat healthy - I believe in listening to your own body for the right diet - mine likes a pesce-vegan kind of diet. Less cheese/breads, more veggies/fruits/seafood. It's like I'm at the beach all the time! :D Couldn't-Live-Withouts: MusicFamily & FriendsThe oceanBooksSnuggle-time with munchkinGood food/wine. Inside My Head: There's a constant soundtrack in my head...it never stops. I also picture anything everyone says in cartoon version internally. Randomly, I'm pondering life, music, the beach, adventures with my munchkin, what my little munchkin is doing while I'm away from her...sleep.... You should message me if: 1) You have something interesting to say - if you want a response, I recommend something witty, funny, intelligent, and/or that I can't help but want to respond back to. I'm not going to respond back to "Hi, how are you." Here's your answer: "I'm great! Thanks for asking."B) You're equally awesome and fun/laid-back/exciting (yes, those can go together without complete paradoxical implications)...and looking for quality friendship & laughter.*-set to be a cabana boy, are independently wealthy, and show up with flowers. I'm probably not going to meet up with a random stranger after one conversation. Get to know me here, move to ***, etc. and then we can do something public and kid-friendly. I'm a single mom & munchkin is a year old....so if I'm important enough for you to get to know, you'll understand, respect, and work with this. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I'm the blonde, the brunette is spoken for. :)I'm in a place in life where I choose to be happy and I choose someone who's happy to share it with. I am looking for someone who lives in the present, we all have baggage from our past but I'm looking for someone who isn't still carrying it around. I would love to find someone that will go hiking, cycling and camping with me. I'm not super athletic or great at any of these but I do enjoy being active outdoors and find myself doing more and more of it. I am kind, loving, loyal, and candidly honest to a fault. I can also be impatient, sensitive, and strong-willed. What can I say...I'm human. I am usually a very positive person, and when I'm down I don't stay down for long, but I'm not perfect, and I don't pretend to be. The way I see it is, I have nothing to lose by being myself, someone is either going to like me or they wont, but if I pretend to be someone that I'm not then eventually that other person will figure it out and we both lose.We all have an idea of what it is we are looking for in another person, however, I really prefer not to limit myself by trying to put it neatly into a box. I have never fallen for a guy because he fit my idea of my perfect man, ever. It's about chemistry that evolves into friendship, intimacy, and those little idiosyncrasies and quirks that you find endearing them.***Disclaimer: I am 41 years old, not 35. “We are all a little weird and life is a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” Dr. Suess A great first date would be a low key, low pressure type activity. Skip dinner and a movie...besides being cliche' and pricey for the guy, both people are too nervous to really eat and the whole point of a first date is to talk and get to know each other...the purpose is defeated in a movie theater. A walk in the park, if you both want to continue then you can go to dinner. Or even better...bring an easy picnic to the park. Something simple. Save the WOW factor for the person you want a second date with.

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'll try most things once so I'm pretty open that way. I'm not a meat eater and love animals so I'm looking for someone who's open to that and also enjoys being around animals. :) I like people who are fun, good-natured, easy to be around and would also like to get outside and do things together. If you can really make me laugh, bonus.I can be shy in large groups or when I first meet people but have a good sense of humor (sometimes sarcastic so it is a plus if you can hang with it.)

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    So here goes, I work as a retail manager by day and I am a burlesque dancer and cabaret singer by night. I'm energetic, Very affectionate and intelligent. I am looking for someone that loves the arts in all sorts of different forms. Theatre, dance, museums and jazz clubs are all high on my activities list. I am a big foodie and love to cook great meals. I also really enjoy interesting restaurants. Having a meal with friends and great conversation is one of my favorite things in life. I have an awesome dog who is a big part of my life so If your not a dog person you might as well move on. I believe in really getting to know someone before getting into a relationship (which is rarely done). I love life and I hope to find someone with a passion for exploring all life has to give. Travel is very important to me so my ideal match would be someone who uses their vacation time and is not opposed to lots of little getaways. There is so much to explore and learn from in life I am looking for someone to enjoy it with. PS. Please do not respond if you have children, I wish you the best but that's not a situation I am comfortable with. somewhere we can talk and get to know each other. creativity is a plus.

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