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Zena, 36

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About Me

I'm the blonde, the brunette is spoken for. :)I'm in a place in life where I choose to be happy and I choose someone who's happy to share it with. I am looking for someone who lives in the present, we all have baggage from our past but I'm looking for someone who isn't still carrying it around. I would love to find someone that will go hiking, cycling and camping with me. I'm not super athletic or great at any of these but I do enjoy being active outdoors and find myself doing more and more of it. I am kind, loving, loyal, and candidly honest to a fault. I can also be impatient, sensitive, and strong-willed. What can I say...I'm human. I am usually a very positive person, and when I'm down I don't stay down for long, but I'm not perfect, and I don't pretend to be. The way I see it is, I have nothing to lose by being myself, someone is either going to like me or they wont, but if I pretend to be someone that I'm not then eventually that other person will figure it out and we both lose.We all have an idea of what it is we are looking for in another person, however, I really prefer not to limit myself by trying to put it neatly into a box. I have never fallen for a guy because he fit my idea of my perfect man, ever. It's about chemistry that evolves into friendship, intimacy, and those little idiosyncrasies and quirks that you find endearing them.***Disclaimer: I am 41 years old, not 35. “We are all a little weird and life is a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” Dr. Suess A great first date would be a low key, low pressure type activity. Skip dinner and a movie...besides being cliche' and pricey for the guy, both people are too nervous to really eat and the whole point of a first date is to talk and get to know each other...the purpose is defeated in a movie theater. A walk in the park, if you both want to continue then you can go to dinner. Or even better...bring an easy picnic to the park. Something simple. Save the WOW factor for the person you want a second date with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Christel

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Ok, this part. Well... I am a daughter, mommy, aunt, cousin and friend. Family is important. I have a 5 yr old daughter and I thought I knew love until I met her. She will always be my number 1, however there's still room or a number 2 should he find me. :) I'm not a dependent woman. I am pretty independent, but that doesn't mean I'm not able to pass the reigns over to my man sometimes. I would say I'm a classy gal. I can throw on some Tech 8's and rip up n down a trail w/ the biggest smile on my face. I love sports, preferably extreme sports. Two wheels and a board under my feet are the fav's. While I come from the heat of the summer, my favorite season is winter when leaving the house at 6am is better enjoyed on the highway, watching the sun come up on the way to the mountain, thinking of the turns and untracked tree's awaiting me....Being outdoors period is awesome.

  • Teri

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I was told to try this site out so I am just seeing what it is about! I am very passionate about my relationship with God. I am a very outgoing person and love to make people laugh. I feel that people take life too seriously and I think there should be more smiles and laughter. I am a single mom of 2 kids who are my world. I do have them full time but have awesome friends and family who are there for my kids so I can go out and have some fun :) I am looking for something substantial and not meaningless. I am a very independent woman who knows what I want and deserve in life. I want someone who will give 100% as I will as well. I think meeting up for something quick and small (with no pressure) like coffee or jamba juice is a great ice breaker to see if we hit it off. If so, on to date #2 ;-)

  • Versie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am still learning about this area and would love to see the sights with someone special.My hobbies are going to movies, concerts, listening to all kinds of music, reading fiction books and some non-fiction. I also love spending time with my friends. I'm looking for someone that I can become great friends with and have a lasting relationship with as well. I want to laugh, be happy, and live life to the fullest. Something casual so we can talk. Maybe coffee.

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