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Vanessa, 41

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About Me

I know i can enhance your life, keep your attention, challenge you, teach you and love you. Can you do the same for me? i deserve an equal. I have many passions and hobbies. Never a lack for conversation. Looking for someone authentic I'm intuitive. Can't fool me :)I work for an airline doing reservations, practice reiki, cut rocks, make jewelry, and much more. Love to laugh and be spontaneous. I'm sarcastic. I'd like to think I'm funny. Very witty. If you can't handle some profanity might want to avoid me. I smile and laugh alot. I have the kind of laugh you hear across the room. I also have a diabolical laugh. If you hear that one your in trouble :) I'm a hugger and a good one at that. Since i'm very social I speak to strangers and make conversation everywhere.I give great shoulder rubs. I get along with everybody. I have many clients and friends that are guys. If you are the jealous insecure type, move on..Why am I unique?? Umm I have a ninja sword, I drive around with a huge rosé quartz in my car. I can carry a full conversation without words, just eye contact. I don't put energy on money like most people. I consider it bubbles. Way more fun! Music is a big part of my life. I like many types of music. I like all movies ill watch pretty much anything. If its scary though I'm a squeezer and a screamer. I cry in the chick flicks too I love every kind of food and culture. Love to travel. I love to cook. Havent had much time these days but I can cook just about anything from tamales, fried chicken, chicken parmesan with homemade marinara etc. Just looking to meet new people and experience life. Always up for adventure or just to chill. If you like what you see just message me! Please more than two words. I generally won't reply to "hi". I'm emotionally stable and available. I don't want to hear all about your terrible exes. If we all had amazing exes we wouldn't be on here... just saying... Some information is appreciated but not necessary. I am curvy. I do have some extra pounds. If you have a problem with that I could use a work out buddy. I'm confident with my body however. Not an issue for me. I embrace ALL of me! I have 4 kids. And if your still reading this they are great. And I'm not just saying that. 3 boys 17, 14, 10. My daughter is 11. If having babies is a must for you I'm not your girl. Closed that chapter of my life. I love fortune cookies. Just the fortune. I always pick the best ones! I don't sweat the small stuff. Nothing you say could shock me. Honestly.I've lost people very close to me. Had many life experiences I've grown from. I live each day to the fullest. I hold the ones I love close and I'm grateful for every day of life I'm gifted. Reiki is a huge part of my life. Its a japanese form of energy healing. I have experienced many miracles through reiki. I have the best stories and I love to share them. I also read angel cards. Disclaimers***Honestly im tired of having sex thrown at me or people asking for nude pics. I'm craving romance, friendship and nurturing first. I don't need someone to save me or take care of me. I am financially secure. I own a home and have it together. I work hard. Please don't ask me for money (yes that happens). I'm not looking for another dependent. No addicts please! Not interested in dating anyone I'm old enough to be their mom or daughter. I have lots of old and young friends. Just not romantic interests. Thanks. Sushi, drinks, hike, sunset watching. Or any adventure will do :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sara

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I would describle myself as a very happy go lucky fun loving girl. Work hard, play hard. Love to enjoy life. Love to shop, travel, go out to dinner. Cook a little bit, but worship a man who can cook. Looking for someone who shares my love for horses, and animals in general :), and is pretty athletic, and active. I enjoy witty conversation a good sense of humor goes over very well with me, but a sensitive romantic side as well. Prefer a tall man 5"10 or taller. I like a man who is driven as well. Age is not everything but maturity is. Love good music, blues, country, alternative rock, top 40 pretty versatile. Did I mention I love to laugh :) I like a man that is confident, and not afraid to be the man, but respectful of my independence as well. Look forward to sharing good times with a special person. Look forward to hearing from you! Surprise me!!!

  • Patrica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Okay let me start by saying....please do not message me if you are still married or if you are not interested in a relationship. If you are looking for dating and nothing serious then best of luck but I want more. Not interested in "who knows I might change my mind", I only want to meet a guy who knows what he wants. I am a widow and had a loving successful marriage for 12 yrs, I have been on my own since ***. My standards and expectations are very high, and I do have a tendencies to compare men to my late husband. I know that saying that will scare quite a few of you away but I know what I want and dont want. I really do love my job and give 100% to it, I am a workaholic (looking for a reason not to be). I travel around PA a lot but no complaints, I've made great friends. I do miss flirting and having fun with that one special guy, please don't misunderstand, I don't participant in casual sex. Its important that the chemistry is there so that a romantic relationship can unfold or who knows, catch us off guard. I am not looking for any more "guy" friends, I have lots of those. I have a bit of a devilish side and the smile of an angel so I promise we will have lots of innocent fun. I know I am getting long winded here but its important to say. If you have children I welcome the opportunity to eventually meet them. I say eventually because they are your pride and joy and need your protection. Children should not have to be exposed to or endure our adult choices. I stayed single for a long time to raise my kids, now its my turn to enjoy a good man in my life. I am a lady with girlish behaviour and a tomboy twist. Hoping you have a dry sense of humour, a natural born leader, an intellectual, social, easy going, and loving, a guy who doesn't sweat the small stuff and can laugh at yourself and me. You're compassionate, spontaneous, and playful, you're a protector of your girl but not controlling. You will appreciate that I am patient and loyal. I am looking to build friendship and trust, honesty and respect - it all goes hand in hand. What I am looking for: • Smart – school smart or street wise – as long as you can participate fully in a conversation (willingly not to appease)• Successful – someone who likes what they are doing and does it well (and proud of it).• Considerate – this includes kind and sweet….your family and friends would say you are a “great guy” for all the right reasons.• Loyal – knows how to be with one person (and isn’t keeping one eye out for something better)• Positive and fun – someone who has a good outlook on life and who knows how to laugh at himself and enjoys the little things (not looking for the class clown or a head cheerleader)• Attractive - I like a man who is "clean shaven", sexy (in his own way) preferably taller than me (I am just shy of 5'8) and enjoys being very active (which means be in shape- and round is not a shape) • Loving – ask me if you are not sure. I hope you enjoyed my sharing and have a great day.Please have a photo if you want a response. Please have photos that show how good looking you are, show your fantastic smile. And I don't go out with married men (separated is still married - sorry guys) Let's see if you are really reading this profile....I WILL NOT check your profile if you send an *** "WANT TO MEET YOU" option so please dont!!!! I only delete them.“That which is loved is always beautiful.” That sentence perfectly sums up true love, beauty and the transformational power of truth, trust and love. “You’ll Learn To Love Her. Warts And All.” ....p.s. I dont have much patience left for online games, so if you dont want to get to know me, not to worries I can handle it. I have learned to move on and getting better at it unfortunately. lets plan it together....Best first date ever.....we sat in a coffee shop with our iPads and search great songs...the hours went by quickly then we realized it was 1 am....we shared almost every part of our lives as they associated with different songs we found...I've never opened up like that so quickly with someone I met online. We are still good friends to this day. second favourite quote..."I dont need a man, I need a champion".....is that you?

  • Kristi

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    So if I told you I was sexy as hell would it make a difference? If I said I do what I say and say what I do, would you believe it? If I was honest enough to tell you I am a small BBW would you want to see how truthful I am being?Many guys are saying " Hey where are all the good women?" Or hey why is it so hard to find someone who is real or honest or does what they say they will.Maybe, just maybe......... it is because so many are seeking someone who can first fulfil your "fantasies" *** someone real that you can DO things with. Sex isn't wrong and it's fun as hell! but it also isn't the "meat and potatos" of life either. Eventually our bodies will begin to fail, and if you can't talk to your mate, or they are not your best friend, then really.. what do you have left? And how much time can you really spend in bed? The majority of our life is not spent there. Just saying.... I find pleasure in some of the small things in life. Swimming in the River beside a camp ground. Walking hand and hand by the ocean feeling the cool sand between our toes as we watch a lovely sunset. Laying in the sun and taking turns rubbing warm oils into eachothers skin. Slow dancing to sensual music at an outdoor festival. Curling up infront of a wam fire and chatting while enjoying our favorite beverage. Sharing the "pains of the day" and help eachother decompress. Sharing an awesome rollar coaster ride and laughing as we come off from it breathless...only to see the silly pictures they *** we started down the steep drop. LOL Feeding eachother morsels off from our plates when we are out to dinner and we have an excellent meal we want the other to taste....... Simple things...memorable things.... After all, that is what this life is all about, making memories to carry with us. So I can honestly say ALL of that is truthful and open and honest. Right down to being a very small bbw. Still reading? As you can see I am VERY VERY direct. I write as if I am sitting accross from you having coffee or a drink. ( So if a direct mannor is going to constantly be mistaken for mean, angry, or ****y? This could be problematic. I am none of those, I am simply DIRECT.) Side NOTE: If you are married or have a girl friend, pass me by. I don't like to hurt others, I am not into causing problems, and I don't need drama in my life. Although some of it eventually finds us all, I try to avoid drama if I can help it. I am looking for harmony, peace, delightful adventure, fun and games (that pleasure both people), new experiences, and quality in all things over quantity.I am mainly seeking friendship. I believe you can't have anything if you don't have the friendship first.I tend to like men who are younger then I am. However it depends on the man. I don't really have a certain TYPE of man.Life is too short not to LIVE, LOVE, LAUGH and PLAY! Want to come and play wiff me??Or a bowl of popcorn at home watching Sci Fi or Animal Planet or the latest action, horror, or scifi movie!Light hikingGo to the drive in (and actually WATCH the movie)maybe camping (I haven't done a LOT of this)zip lining!NEW Places and culturesAir HockeyAnd I LOVE to travel!I am up to try most anything. Twice if I liked it!Life is all about experiences and creating memories. It isn't a dress rehersal, "so Let's get it started!"Me: affection, respect, and yeah I do dare to say it "honesty"! Lot's of WARMTH and FUN! (and oh so VERY direct)Looking for the same in another. (If you can dance and or give a real massage (or truly want to learn) please at least drop me a note. I am employed full time, and would welcome platonic friends who just want to hang out sometimes.I want to TAKE IT SLOW. THIS means NOT jumping into ANYTHING. If you are seeking something VERY short term ..as in all you want is to *** *** Please just keep rolling on by. I am not looking for anything short term unless we don't get along... then it can be VERY short and I am good with that! :) (soft smile) I wish you the best in your search regardless of whether or not you decide to write to me. I DO try to return e-mails promptly although at times I am not online much. Something that would be comfortable for both people but allow us to interact and enjoy ourselves. A game of pool and a drink? Lunch or simply a cup of coffee. A long walk if it is warm enough. Sit on the Waterfront in a swing and chat? So many possibilities.

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