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Hester, 41

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About Me

I am sexy, smart, very independent mother of two boys.I love comedy and love to laugh a lot. Life is to short so I like to find humor in things. I enjoy being outdoors, go for walks, lay by the pool,or spend the day by the beach.I enjoy different kinds of music, like r&b,hip-hop,rap,rock and roll, one of my favorite bands is Disturbed, But i do not like country music and I also enjoy all kinds of movies. I like men who can sometimes take charge and be spontaneous or just surprise me for the day. First choice, hanging by the pool for a day. Second choice, go to the beach for a day. Third, take me to dinner and a movie or maybe just to 1 of those. Last choice I guess would be Rent movies and order in dinner!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeanne

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Now that the weather is finally getting warm, it is the perfect time to meet someone :)First and for most; I have two kids that I adore a ***son) and ***daughter). I have my kids every other week. They are the lights of my life!!! Both of them are very active in sports and I do what I can to help them improve and enjoy sports even more! I do coach them in a couple sports, which they do love! It would be nice to wear heels and not have to look down to a guy :) I really want to find someone that enjoys walking, riding bike, traveling, and watching movies!! I love movies and they are a great past time.. nice to cuddle up and watch a movie with someone special! Someone that already has kids are great, I love kids and hanging out with kids!!!I am pretty laid back person very down to earth, but love to get out and have a great time! I love trying new things - just ask, I am sure I will be game to try it! I love hanging out with friends and family..I like to keep active as much as I can.. I love to walk and I do play volleyball (indoor and outdoor), I like playing other sports as well, but volleyball is my favorite! I love the outdoors - anything outdoors is great.. Walking, camping, bonfires, grilling... :)I like to be casual (love shorts, tanks, and flip flops in the summer). Yes summer is my favorite time of the year, I love the warm weather, who knows someday after my kids are done with school, I may move south! Until that happens or if that happens I love to travel!!! I am in the travel business and so many years I didn't take advantage of my benefits, so I am trying to make up for it.. I enjoy going dancing. I like all types of music.. yes country included and 80's music is still great!!! But pretty much like all types except not to much into Opera! I love to smile and try to look on the positive side of things.. enjoy life and have fun doing it.. Love to laugh and making people laugh!!!Well send me a message if you would like to talk sometime!!** Please have updated pictures, mine are, I would appreciate the same in return.. :) Getting to know a person, let's go for a walk, maybe catching a drink and appetizer!!!The weather is finally nice now.. so if you have a cruiser motorcycle, take me for a ride!!!

  • Ollie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I can be your best friend or your worse enemy.Im a very busy independent woman that handles things myself my kids and career come first which leaves little time for a personal life so thats why im here .please dont come at me on no sex sh*t you dont even know me. Im worth more than that I keep everything ***all the time and exspect the same************Also white men I date black men so dont bother and then talk crazy when I dont respond

  • Greta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    First of all, I did not select anything for Body Type because none of the choices are descriptive of me. I am Curvy!Also, I put that I don't smoke, but I smoked in the past and have switched to e-cigs! LOVE THEM!Ok now that business is out of the way...Ultimately, I am looking for My Soul Mate! (as described below) However, I've been doing a lot of thinking lately about my life and my future. And when I am free of this situation, my Acting Career will be my main focus!Plus, I've never been a fan of living in the cold weather up here; and I would like to live in a place where I can have flowers blooming in my yard all year around...rather than having them destroyed each year by winter.Then again, my family & I guess I will wait until the time comes to make that decision. It will mostly depend on where the majority of movies are being filmed at the time!So where does that leave me in my search for My Soul Mate???I want to go out on dates and have fun and enjoy life, but am I still looking for My Soul Mate? Is it wise to start a "relationship" with someone here if I may be leaving in a few years? I certainly don't want to hurt anyone by my leaving, including myself.However, if he IS My Soul Mate, wouldn't he want to move with me? Or should I not even be looking for him here? It couldn't be someone who has children here because I would never expect anyone to move so far away from his child/ren for me.So anyway, there's some random ramblings from my mind! L! I guess I'm not sure what I'm looking for here/now.But I do know that I would like to go out on dates! I don't want to put that part of my life on hold for years, regardless of future plans.Plus, this woman has needs!)So I guess if you don't mind going out with someone who is as confused as I am...I'm available! L!And here's what I had on my profile before:I cannot be summed up in a paragraph...I am multi-faceted...like a Diamond!I am looking for my Sun to Shine on me and reflect all of my beautiful colors!!! =8)I am a Movie Actress, a Fashion Designer, an Artist!I am looking for a meaningful relationship.I am looking for My Soul Mate---THE ONE to love who loves me. THE ONE to live my life with, laugh with, play with...I am focused on finding THE ONE!In an effort to save myself time and anyone who is reading this both time and possible hurt feelings, I have included below a description of My Soul Mate.If you meet this description, I would love to hear from you! We can then get to know each other better and find out if we are indeed Soul Mates!If you do not meet this description, you are not the one I am looking for. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I am just being honest. I wish you the very best of luck and hope you find what/who you are looking for! =:)Now for the description (and explanations, if necessary)...MALEMy Soul Mate is a man. However, I am bi-sexual and attracted to women as well. I am willing to be with only one man (if you are into men too, that's cool with me), but I would like to occasionally include women in our sex life. If we find someone that we are both attracted to and that person is interested in us, that would be perfect! If another woman (or man) is included, it would have to be a situation with all of us. If I am not included, I feel it is cheating, and I would NOT be ok with that. We can discuss this further in person if you make it past here and the rest of my description... Also, please know that Bret Michaels (should the opportunity arise) is MY "clause in the contract"! L!AGEAge is just a number! No one can change when they were born! Age is not important. I have dated people my own age, people younger and people older. What IS important is maturity! Age and maturity have ABSOLUTELY *NOTHING* to do with each other. I have known young people who are mature and older people who are immature. My Soul Mate will be mature...regardless of age!LONG HAIRWhile I certainly know there are plenty of good looking guys with short hair and even some with their heads completely shaved, I have ALWAYS been attracted to long haired men! Basically, if you look like you were in an 80s Hair Band...YES! If you WERE in an 80s Hair Band...HELL YES!! If you look like Bret Michaels...PERFECT!!! If you ARE Bret Michaels...F**KING PERFECT!!!!!!!!! (And what took you so long? I've met you many times! L!) All joking aside, my Soul Mate will have long hair! It can even be past your a**! I promise I won't even be jealous if yours is longer than mine! L! Hair color is not important (though I mostly find myself attracted to blondes) as long as it's long! L!*UPDATE*I may have to forgo this requirement as apparently, there are no long haired men left on the planet!I guess if I see a guy who has long hair, I'll know he's THE ONE...cuz he's the ONLY one with long hair! L!*********THE INSIDE STUFFThis is the hardest part... I could probably go on FOREVER listing attributes I'm looking for... I'm not even sure where to start... I guess I'm looking for the male version of me! Plus some extra stuff I might want and need in my life!Here goes...Intelligent (LOVE having deep intellectual and philosophical discussions!), Kind, Caring, Considerate, Thoughtful, Romantic, Spontaneous, Adventurous, Wild, Imaginative, Creative, (Love Musicians...must be the Actress in me!), HONEST, Open, Communicative, Ambitious, Sweet, Silly, Funny, Comical, Crazy (in a FUN way, NOT psycho), Hard Working, Takes Pride in Self and Work and Everything...I guess that's a start! If I think of anything else, I'll add it...All of these things are just like ME!Like I said, I'm looking for the male version of me!I also want to add that I am an EXTREMELY *HONEST* person. I am straightforward and *NOT AT ALL* into lies and games and bullshit. I expect the same from anyone who contacts me. If you cannot be COMPLETELY HONEST, keep moving on because you are NOT for me! (Not trying to be mean...just being honest!) I would like our first date to be going out to dinner, having drinks and talking and getting to know each other better.From there, I am open to whatever--a movie or dancing or...whatever we decide!

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