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Hester, 41

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About Me

I am sexy, smart, very independent mother of two boys.I love comedy and love to laugh a lot. Life is to short so I like to find humor in things. I enjoy being outdoors, go for walks, lay by the pool,or spend the day by the beach.I enjoy different kinds of music, like r&b,hip-hop,rap,rock and roll, one of my favorite bands is Disturbed, But i do not like country music and I also enjoy all kinds of movies. I like men who can sometimes take charge and be spontaneous or just surprise me for the day. First choice, hanging by the pool for a day. Second choice, go to the beach for a day. Third, take me to dinner and a movie or maybe just to 1 of those. Last choice I guess would be Rent movies and order in dinner!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Casey

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    "Only in Love, is Unity and Duality not in conflict" R Tagore. Looking for a normal upbeat guy that wants to meet a woman, hang out, get to know each other, have fun, and see where things go. I like to do a lot of things. My interests are very diverse. I like learning new things and enjoying the outdoors as much as possible-even when it's cold. I've been married 1 time and I have 1 child--not looking to get married again anytime soon-just want to enjoy life, my guy if it comes to that, and no pressure. Since Aug ***, I've tried this online dating stuff and it has been a total bust just trying to meet normal, stable, and honest--so I'm real selective. I've learned by watching other people in life that most people spend their life and health obtaining the advantages in life and then in later years spend their money and advantages trying to retain their health-no matter which way you look at it-if you can't afford LTC health insurance-then the government gets it no matter which way you look at it--so, overall, life is short and it's about the relationships we etablish***come on now-my signature phrase;) A man that captures my interest and maintains it has the qualities of compassion for others, integrity, honesty, has a sense of humor, passionate overall, and the ability and desire to communicate openly. I live my daily life on the "Law of Attraction". Have to be honest and say that I do not like to be around a lot of drama or drama people or hear a lot of complaining. There are days when just going on a hike is what I need to get away from all the noise and to just be quiet, listen, and enjoy the peace around. So, I just not the average female. I'm more about watching someone's actions then talking, I do not like to gossip, or participate in gossip, and I'm just not a judgmental person. Be who you want to be-just trying to find the right one for me to get to know and spend time with.My favorite times and sounds-being outside when the snowing is falling. Listening and watching it come down. Listening, warming up to a fire-hearing it pop and warming the body up, or a late night stroll on the beach where it ends in an embrace and listening to the waves and the sounds they make. Before a first date, I would hope to meet for a few. I do not drink coffee.

  • Ofelia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a 41 yr old divorced mother of three great kids. Two of them still at home. I have two dogs and one cat. I don't really have a lot of free time due to working nights and sleeping during the day. I do have my weekends off!I like all types of music except classical. As far as movies, I'll watch just about anything. I enjoy the outdoors. Camping is one of my favorite things to do. I'm very laid back and easy going. I can get along with almost anyone.After a couple of not so good experiences on here I felt I should add a few more things. 1. If you're going to lie to me keep looking for someone else to lie to.2. If you think you're going to feel the need to lie to me keep looking.3. If you just want someone to "use" keep looking for someone who wants to be used.4. If you think you might want to "use" me keep looking.5. If you don't want to know something don't ask.6. If you don't think you'll like my answer don't ask.It really isn't hard to be honest and be a good person who knows how to treat a woman.One more thing and Ill get off my soap box...don't ask me for money the first time you meet me. What the hell kinda sh*t is that?*****UPDATE**Are threre any men left who know what the word honesty means? I apologize to those of you that know how to treat a woman. I obviously am not finding the ones who don't lie, take advantage of, and use. Did i mention lie? I understand I am not perfect nor do I claim to be. All I ask for is honesty, loyalty. I'm not one that has to go out all the time and have money spent on me. I'm happy with getting a coney dog somewhere. Maybe I need to be more high maintenance. If I am not dating you on a commited relationship basis don't expect me to cook for you all the time. I am not your wife, mother, ol lady or whatever you choose to call a woman. Don't get me wrong I greatly enjoy taking care of a man but its a two way street! I do not work as a maid so don't treat me as one.Toilet seats....what can I say but PUT THEM DOWN!!! Especially when you're in my home. What you do in your home is up to you.Pictures....People smile!!! Why do you guys look pissed and mad at the world? Just in case any men did not know this we as women are not impressed to see forty yr old men flipping the camera off. Its ok to act like a gentleman. It would be nice if you were one but I know for some that's a huge request! I'm giving this 2 more weeks then I'm done! I have a 110# boxer at home who drools, berps, has gas and snores just like a man. He's always happy to see me. He doesn't complain when he gets fed. He doesn't lie to me and he's loyal. With that being said lets try this again.People please....is there any men on here that know what the words truth, honesty and loyalty mean? I give everyone a fair chance. Once you lie to me or take advantage of my kindness you're done! All Iwould like to have is one man (preferably one that knows the definition of a man) to prove me wrong about my impression of men right now! I hate to lump the good with the bad but the bad outweigh the good. I'm only saying this so some of you won't waste your time....DO NOT ASK ME FOR MONEY!!! I am NOT a bank. I do NOT have bank tattooed anywhere on me. For those of you who do not know this little piece of info this is for you...It is still ok to ask a woman on a date. Either pick her up or meet. Its ok for a man to pay for dinner. I'm not saying you have to all the time but the first time is acceptable. I'm tired of having to update this so please just do the right thing! It isn't difficult to be honest loyal and sincere. It is not acceptable to lie cheat take advantage of and steal money (you know who you are)!Thank you :-)Julie First date.... I prefer not to go to the movies for a first date. I feel like that's two hours wasted not getting to know one another. Dinner would be nice. Going for coffee. Something simple that will give us the opportunity to get to know one another. If things go well then movies are acceptable.

  • Sheree

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a desperately unphotogenic woman looking for someone who likes a pint of the black, a good book, a game of scrabble and indie music. Being able to make me laugh is a real bonus. A warning though. A friend once described my sense of humour as "inappropriate". The rest you can find out later. I promise I'm nowhere near as boring as this profile sounds.By the way, I'm a little bit foreign. I moved here from Australia 6 months before the economy collapsed. Yay me. But if you're married, please don't bother. Ta!And apologies if I disappear and don't chat. I tend to pop in and pop out of here. Sorry about that. A natter and a laugh in a smelly old man pub.

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