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Casey, 41
United States, Illinois, Evanston

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About Me

"Only in Love, is Unity and Duality not in conflict" R Tagore. Looking for a normal upbeat guy that wants to meet a woman, hang out, get to know each other, have fun, and see where things go. I like to do a lot of things. My interests are very diverse. I like learning new things and enjoying the outdoors as much as possible-even when it's cold. I've been married 1 time and I have 1 child--not looking to get married again anytime soon-just want to enjoy life, my guy if it comes to that, and no pressure. Since Aug ***, I've tried this online dating stuff and it has been a total bust just trying to meet normal, stable, and honest--so I'm real selective. I've learned by watching other people in life that most people spend their life and health obtaining the advantages in life and then in later years spend their money and advantages trying to retain their health-no matter which way you look at it-if you can't afford LTC health insurance-then the government gets it no matter which way you look at it--so, overall, life is short and it's about the relationships we etablish***come on now-my signature phrase;) A man that captures my interest and maintains it has the qualities of compassion for others, integrity, honesty, has a sense of humor, passionate overall, and the ability and desire to communicate openly. I live my daily life on the "Law of Attraction". Have to be honest and say that I do not like to be around a lot of drama or drama people or hear a lot of complaining. There are days when just going on a hike is what I need to get away from all the noise and to just be quiet, listen, and enjoy the peace around. So, I just not the average female. I'm more about watching someone's actions then talking, I do not like to gossip, or participate in gossip, and I'm just not a judgmental person. Be who you want to be-just trying to find the right one for me to get to know and spend time with.My favorite times and sounds-being outside when the snowing is falling. Listening and watching it come down. Listening, warming up to a fire-hearing it pop and warming the body up, or a late night stroll on the beach where it ends in an embrace and listening to the waves and the sounds they make. Before a first date, I would hope to meet for a few. I do not drink coffee.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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