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Gemini · Looking for: Man, 27–37
I'm a really friendly person that's looking for someone special to share the next chapter of my life with. I tend to be a bit shy at first, but who isn't? I have a great circle of friends; most of which I've known for many many years. I have a smaller family, and am very close with my mom. For most of my career I've been in banking, and went to skool for Accounting. I finally decided that banking made me want to rip my hair out, so I went for a change. I know have a bit of a unique job which is very flexible. I really like having the ability to travel, sleep in, or not have to deal with countless phone calls when I'm not there. I'm also into real-estate, and have some dealings in it on the side. Growing up I always wanted to be a realtor, but realized I'm not digging the idea of clients dragging me into bank owned homes with no heat in the middle of January at midnight on any given Sunday. Aside from travel/weekend trips, I like going out and having drinks with friends, shooting pool, going out to dinner, kayaking, fishing and hiking. I love Chinese/Thai food, and hate mornings. I'm perfectly content sitting here typing this at 2am. Some may say that I sleep the day away - I feel they sleep away the night :-) I drive fast but move slow, and i'm probably running about 15 minutes late to wherever I'm supposed to be. Other than that, I'm a pretty considerate person, and looking for the same in someone else. I don't want to be smothered, unless I wanna smother you back. I think we sometimes hide behind technology too much. I don't want to message back and forth 60 times, to then move on to emailing, and then three weeks later start texting. After a week of that, it usually turns out that you've flaked, and dropped off the planet. If we click, I'm down to let you buy me dinner...or maybe a pony. Just kidding. Being gay makes for an odd dating experience sometimes. Who pays for dinner? The guy? Lol...who drives? THE GUY? That's weird. I'm down for something traditional like dinner, or something different. For some reason I usually end up planning the date, but like it when the (other) guy makes the plans. Unless he picks a restaurant I don't like! I think it's nice to first meet somewhere casual to see if there's some vibe. It's no fun realizing that it isn't gonna go anywhere but the waiter JUST dropped off the appetizers. I don't like to see movies during a first date. Who's bright idea was it to go sit next to someone in the dark, and not converse for two hours? So, to sum it up....I'm down for just about anything....except a movie :-)
